Saturday, July 31, 2010

Two weeks to get a guy, any advice?

There is this guy I work with, and he doesn't work while he's in school just at christmas and during the summer. Well we just started flirting, he initiated it and after flirting back and warming up to him, I realized he's someone I may be interested in. Only catch is that school is back in session in two weeks, and we have no connections outside of work. How do I establish an outside of work relationship with him, without coming on too strong??Two weeks to get a guy, any advice?
The way I did it with a co-worker-turned-outside-of-work-friend, was to ask him to do things with a group of people (co-workers), which doesn't put too much pressure on either of you. You could use his leaving as an excuse for such an event. After, tell him you'll miss him and ask to keep in contact. That wouldn't be weird, considering you had an even for HIM.





It all starts with a phone number or email address. You don't have to be dating at the end of two weeks, just be in a position where you can still have contact with him, and go from there.Two weeks to get a guy, any advice?
Come on strong. If you really want him, go after him. Ask him out. Otherwise in two weeks you'll have NOTHING.





Why do people make dating so much more complicated than it is? The worst thing that could happen is he'll laugh in your face and scream ';NO!!!';. You'll then realize he was a jerk and you'll want nothing to do with him.


OR


He'll say yes and you'll go out and maybe even have a good time.





It really is that simple.
invite him to do something, a drink, dinner, etc. then you can tell if you're really interested and have fun, then you decide how far yo want to go. Hope it helps.

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