It seems like you are missing something with an amplifier.
The mic will connect to the behringer mixer
The mixer will connect to an amplifier
The amp will connect to the speakers
You don't really need two mixers (Nady and Behringer).
E-mail me if you have other questions
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
Mens fashion advice- what clothes to get? where to go?
Im looking for some new clothes, both casual and smart (and jackets). What is the best place online to go to get some good clothes, not just the usual next or asos e.c.t.
Also has anyone got any good ideas on jackets this winter?
im a 19 year old man just wanna look abit smarter and cant find any decent clothes out there, any tips?Mens fashion advice- what clothes to get? where to go?
Ok, first were going to get some things out the way. FIRST, you always want to match your tops with your shoes. Second, buy like 3 tees and 1 shirts for every pair of shoes. Third, buy atleast 7 pairs of shoes. Fourth, always make sure you are well groomed. Fifth, make sure that you always smell fresh(cologne). Now that we got those things out the way heres what i think you should get.
Shoes- try to get like Seven pairs of Converse Chucks. They are very fashionable and versatile. Try to get them in the following colors; Black/White, Navy/White, Brown/White, Red/White, Green/white, Grey/White, and Optical White/White.(remeber about the matching tops)
Jeans- Get them all fitted(not tight nor baggy). Get three in a dark denim blue, get one black, and one light blue.
T-shirts- You can buy these graphic tees from American Eagle, Aeropostale, Old navy, DKNY, and other places like this. They dont have to be very expensive, but they do have to match your shoes.
Shirts- All you need is one shirt for each pair of dark shoes you have(black, navy, brown, and grey). The shirts can be worn to school on a friday or can also assist when needed for casual occasions.
Cologne- try to use a light cologne. Nothing that is too strong. Maybe something like Paris Hilton for him.
Since you also want a smarter look, all you have to do is throw a Blazer ontop of anything that you wear.
Stores
-Aeropostale
-DKNY
-Gap
-Old Navy
-Express
for jackets, check out Old Navy's Outwear, they have some pretty nice ones (they run from $50.00 - $70.00).Mens fashion advice- what clothes to get? where to go?
Penguin and Ben Sherman have some really cool stuff for guys.
Dont go for the Teenager stuff ! LOL that's my advice. Shop somewhere like urban outfitters or there's Armani Exchange, Zara, Parasuco, Style Exchange has REALLY nice jackets for men. Guess or even Banana Republic!! Just avoid the HOLLISTER.CO or A%26amp;F :) haha GOOD LUCK!
Also has anyone got any good ideas on jackets this winter?
im a 19 year old man just wanna look abit smarter and cant find any decent clothes out there, any tips?Mens fashion advice- what clothes to get? where to go?
Ok, first were going to get some things out the way. FIRST, you always want to match your tops with your shoes. Second, buy like 3 tees and 1 shirts for every pair of shoes. Third, buy atleast 7 pairs of shoes. Fourth, always make sure you are well groomed. Fifth, make sure that you always smell fresh(cologne). Now that we got those things out the way heres what i think you should get.
Shoes- try to get like Seven pairs of Converse Chucks. They are very fashionable and versatile. Try to get them in the following colors; Black/White, Navy/White, Brown/White, Red/White, Green/white, Grey/White, and Optical White/White.(remeber about the matching tops)
Jeans- Get them all fitted(not tight nor baggy). Get three in a dark denim blue, get one black, and one light blue.
T-shirts- You can buy these graphic tees from American Eagle, Aeropostale, Old navy, DKNY, and other places like this. They dont have to be very expensive, but they do have to match your shoes.
Shirts- All you need is one shirt for each pair of dark shoes you have(black, navy, brown, and grey). The shirts can be worn to school on a friday or can also assist when needed for casual occasions.
Cologne- try to use a light cologne. Nothing that is too strong. Maybe something like Paris Hilton for him.
Since you also want a smarter look, all you have to do is throw a Blazer ontop of anything that you wear.
Stores
-Aeropostale
-DKNY
-Gap
-Old Navy
-Express
for jackets, check out Old Navy's Outwear, they have some pretty nice ones (they run from $50.00 - $70.00).Mens fashion advice- what clothes to get? where to go?
Penguin and Ben Sherman have some really cool stuff for guys.
Dont go for the Teenager stuff ! LOL that's my advice. Shop somewhere like urban outfitters or there's Armani Exchange, Zara, Parasuco, Style Exchange has REALLY nice jackets for men. Guess or even Banana Republic!! Just avoid the HOLLISTER.CO or A%26amp;F :) haha GOOD LUCK!
I am thinking of having hair extensions and have been told about remy hair, has anyone got advice about these?
or can anyone tell me if these are good extensions. so many people talk about racoon ones i hadn't heard of remy but thats what my hair dresser uses.I am thinking of having hair extensions and have been told about remy hair, has anyone got advice about these?
Hair extensions comes in different grades, it refers to the quality I would only recommend getting remy as it is the best hair you can buy it is from the roots of the hair so the hair cuticle is going in the same direction its hard to explain sorry =) using remy hair will make your hair extensions last longer as low quality hair tends to tangle and get matted due to the hair cuticle going in different directions
Remy hair however is the most expensive but it will last longer so you wouldn't need to get it re done as often as you would with low quality hair
heres a couple of websites that explain it better
http://www.hairextensionguide.com/hair.h鈥?/a>
http://ezinearticles.com/?What-is-Remy-H鈥?/a>
Hair extensions comes in different grades, it refers to the quality I would only recommend getting remy as it is the best hair you can buy it is from the roots of the hair so the hair cuticle is going in the same direction its hard to explain sorry =) using remy hair will make your hair extensions last longer as low quality hair tends to tangle and get matted due to the hair cuticle going in different directions
Remy hair however is the most expensive but it will last longer so you wouldn't need to get it re done as often as you would with low quality hair
heres a couple of websites that explain it better
http://www.hairextensionguide.com/hair.h鈥?/a>
http://ezinearticles.com/?What-is-Remy-H鈥?/a>
I wanna talk my mom into letting me get my lip pierced. She is strict on these things. Any advice?
I need to pursued her, alot of my friends have them. I dont want one just because they have one either, i wanted one before they got one. I just dont know how to ask her....I wanna talk my mom into letting me get my lip pierced. She is strict on these things. Any advice?
Im not sure but i would wait until your older because you will change your mind. And you wont have a scar.I wanna talk my mom into letting me get my lip pierced. She is strict on these things. Any advice?
tell her that u were thinking about getting something and that before she says no to here u out and give her the reason that u want ur lip pierced but make sure it is a good reason not something stupid like it will make me look cool
listen to your mom
Convincing your mom is like convincing a nation to walk off of a cliff. It's hard, you might have to wait until you are of age. She's just trying to protect you the best way she knows how since lip piercings are tied with social abnormalities. Have patience.
Here are some tips say that you'll pay for it make sure you have found the place you want to get it pierced at already say that other people have it and it turned out fine..and you can always take it out if u don't want it anymore with minamal scarring. Say that you are responisble and will clean it and take good care of it..that you got good grade[if you did] and if you didnt you will work really hard next year and if you still get bad grades you can take it out and if your birthday is coming up soon say thats what you want for your birthday
Hope i helped
Best answer?
just nag her on and on and on until she lets u LOL
its worked for me :Dg
Im not sure but i would wait until your older because you will change your mind. And you wont have a scar.I wanna talk my mom into letting me get my lip pierced. She is strict on these things. Any advice?
tell her that u were thinking about getting something and that before she says no to here u out and give her the reason that u want ur lip pierced but make sure it is a good reason not something stupid like it will make me look cool
listen to your mom
Convincing your mom is like convincing a nation to walk off of a cliff. It's hard, you might have to wait until you are of age. She's just trying to protect you the best way she knows how since lip piercings are tied with social abnormalities. Have patience.
Here are some tips say that you'll pay for it make sure you have found the place you want to get it pierced at already say that other people have it and it turned out fine..and you can always take it out if u don't want it anymore with minamal scarring. Say that you are responisble and will clean it and take good care of it..that you got good grade[if you did] and if you didnt you will work really hard next year and if you still get bad grades you can take it out and if your birthday is coming up soon say thats what you want for your birthday
Hope i helped
Best answer?
just nag her on and on and on until she lets u LOL
its worked for me :D
Daughters need advice to get them through life?
if you could sum up as a book tittle, the best advice you could give to our daughters to guide them through life what would your book tittle be?
mine: maintain your independance even through marriageDaughters need advice to get them through life?
Take Care of U and Everything Else Will Fall In2 Place.Daughters need advice to get them through life?
Mine would be ';Be true to yourself';. Reason being if you cannot be true to yourself; who else can you be true to, therefore you will be living unfulfilled life. When you are the person that you want to be, then and only then will you attract the people who have that same beliefs as you, thus you will be happy because you are happy with yourself and happy with who you have in your life.
I'll Be There For You- a book on guiding your most loved posession(s) through life.
Im no writer but something along those lines i guesss. Good luck!
OOOh, I love the title you chose. I have roughly about a few myself. Like Inner power: The true woman's way to make it through the world, A survival Guide to women and the interrelationships of work, family, men, dating and health, Personal Growth and the keys to womanly confidence in the work world, dating, family and health and a classic one would be Cosmo the first full length Novel.
But personally I think girls of today would no more read a craftily titled book on how to help them through the world or anything else. I mean some girls would, but reading is becoming a dying art form. Which is really sad. So I say more education in the schools needs to be done. As this is where many girls are focusing because the boys are there. Just my take on it.
mine: maintain your independance even through marriageDaughters need advice to get them through life?
Take Care of U and Everything Else Will Fall In2 Place.Daughters need advice to get them through life?
Mine would be ';Be true to yourself';. Reason being if you cannot be true to yourself; who else can you be true to, therefore you will be living unfulfilled life. When you are the person that you want to be, then and only then will you attract the people who have that same beliefs as you, thus you will be happy because you are happy with yourself and happy with who you have in your life.
I'll Be There For You- a book on guiding your most loved posession(s) through life.
Im no writer but something along those lines i guesss. Good luck!
OOOh, I love the title you chose. I have roughly about a few myself. Like Inner power: The true woman's way to make it through the world, A survival Guide to women and the interrelationships of work, family, men, dating and health, Personal Growth and the keys to womanly confidence in the work world, dating, family and health and a classic one would be Cosmo the first full length Novel.
But personally I think girls of today would no more read a craftily titled book on how to help them through the world or anything else. I mean some girls would, but reading is becoming a dying art form. Which is really sad. So I say more education in the schools needs to be done. As this is where many girls are focusing because the boys are there. Just my take on it.
I have my car theory test tomorow so have you got any advice for me on the questions and hazard perception?
I have revised as much as i possibly can. But i wanted some good advice.
thanks.I have my car theory test tomorow so have you got any advice for me on the questions and hazard perception?
I took my theory test 2 months ago when it was shorter and passed first time. For the multipule choice questions, if you have revised using software on your computer then you will of seen just about all of the questions that they will ask you. Read the question 2/3 times and if your not sure then you can flag it and go back later at the end of the test when you have completed all the other questions
I thought my hazard perception went cr*p but I passed as long as you click as soon as you spot a potential hazard then you will be fine, just dont click in a repetitive way and you wont get a white screen. You get a score out of 5 and depending on how soon you click depends on what you score, if you click as asson as you see the hazard you get 5 and if you click half way through the hazard you get 3 and if you miss the hazard completely then you get 0.
I dont know if it has changed but when I did mine there were 14 clips and there was at least one hazard in each clip and one of them had 2.
I remember when I did mine i thought that i had missed the hazard because it was quite far into the clip and i hadent spotted a big hazard but i hadent it was just a small hazard.
5 things to remember:
Dont click repetitively
Click when YOU think something is a hazard, you wont get marked down if you click when you think there is a hazard but the computer doesnt
Dont stop watching the clip after you think you have spotted the hazard, there may be two or you may not of got the correct hazard.
Dont worry if you think you missed a hazard, you probably havent it prob just wasn't as big as you thought it would be.
Stay Calm its not as hard as you think it will be, honest.
Good luckI have my car theory test tomorow so have you got any advice for me on the questions and hazard perception?
Just do your best, good luck
hey , from what i rmeber of it , it wasnt all that difficult, as long as you have revised u should ace it
take your time and read the questions at least twice its not a race so take your time its just all common sense good luck for tomorrow
first of all good luck, if you have revised loads then you will be fine all i can say is make sure your nice and alert so you spot the potential hazards early
thanks.I have my car theory test tomorow so have you got any advice for me on the questions and hazard perception?
I took my theory test 2 months ago when it was shorter and passed first time. For the multipule choice questions, if you have revised using software on your computer then you will of seen just about all of the questions that they will ask you. Read the question 2/3 times and if your not sure then you can flag it and go back later at the end of the test when you have completed all the other questions
I thought my hazard perception went cr*p but I passed as long as you click as soon as you spot a potential hazard then you will be fine, just dont click in a repetitive way and you wont get a white screen. You get a score out of 5 and depending on how soon you click depends on what you score, if you click as asson as you see the hazard you get 5 and if you click half way through the hazard you get 3 and if you miss the hazard completely then you get 0.
I dont know if it has changed but when I did mine there were 14 clips and there was at least one hazard in each clip and one of them had 2.
I remember when I did mine i thought that i had missed the hazard because it was quite far into the clip and i hadent spotted a big hazard but i hadent it was just a small hazard.
5 things to remember:
Dont click repetitively
Click when YOU think something is a hazard, you wont get marked down if you click when you think there is a hazard but the computer doesnt
Dont stop watching the clip after you think you have spotted the hazard, there may be two or you may not of got the correct hazard.
Dont worry if you think you missed a hazard, you probably havent it prob just wasn't as big as you thought it would be.
Stay Calm its not as hard as you think it will be, honest.
Good luckI have my car theory test tomorow so have you got any advice for me on the questions and hazard perception?
Just do your best, good luck
hey , from what i rmeber of it , it wasnt all that difficult, as long as you have revised u should ace it
take your time and read the questions at least twice its not a race so take your time its just all common sense good luck for tomorrow
first of all good luck, if you have revised loads then you will be fine all i can say is make sure your nice and alert so you spot the potential hazards early
Im making a datbase to record everything that goes on on my wii anyone got any advice on how to do it?
I am connected to the internet if that is going to help at all. and are open to any suggestions!Im making a datbase to record everything that goes on on my wii anyone got any advice on how to do it?
check the message board. each day it'll post usage statistics -- what games/channels were used, and for how long
check the message board. each day it'll post usage statistics -- what games/channels were used, and for how long
Please can i get some advice i think i might be dieing?
think i might have a cold or something
my inside of my throat feels ichy and when i cough my chest hurts and i cough up flimm
im also a hypocontreact that what my family says i think i might have thoart cancer or lung cancer but my mom said i dont and im being stupid
and i just know quited smoking cigsPlease can i get some advice i think i might be dieing?
You should worry less about your health and more about your spelling and grammar. How are you ever going to get a job with good enough benefits to allow you to afford being sick all the time?Please can i get some advice i think i might be dieing?
I believe you said that you have quit smoking as best as I could make out,so the cigarettes are your problem as you most likely have bronchitis which causes your bronchial tubes to get infected and swell shut thus causing chest pain and difficulty in breathing along with coughing up phlegm ';mucus'; You most likely have COPD which means Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease which if left untreated may lead to pneumonia! Leave the Tobacco alone and consult a lung Specialist ( Pulmonologist } Keep in mind that you will not get better unless you quit smoking! Good Luck,God Bless and Merry Christmas!
First, my congratulations on quitting smoking cigarettes. That's a step toward life,and perhaps a long happy one at that.Secondly,rather than thinking about death, plan for life. If you have a strong will to overcome the illness you currently have, you'll do it, no matter what it takes. The positive attitude and determination is a very powerful, strong
medication.Yes,see your family doctor with the expectation that he/she's going to help you get rid of your illness. Let the doctor know you've quit smoking and show the determination you'll never return to it.Life holds a lot and you're going to be there to enjoy it for many years to come reaping its rewards and meeting its challenges head on.Best wishes to you,and a long happy life to you.
Its sounds like your just a have a cold/flu. My sister is a hypocontreact also and always thinks she has cancer. My mother tells her to stop over reacting. The only way she calms down is by hearing from a doctor that she hasnt got cancer and then shes fine again. She once went to a shink and that also helped her as its all in her head. She was also put on anti depressants a while back which also helped.
Well it depends on how long you have been smoking to figure out if you have lung or throat cancer. But other than that, it's the simple flu or strep throat. Don't worry about it. Just tell your mom your symptoms and go to a doctor.
A cold isn't going to kill you. Coming down with a cold and assuming that you have lung cancer ( a disease that usually strikes people over age 50) is a bit of a stretch.
probably/hopefully just a cold. if you're really worried, just go see a doctor.
I think you're fine, but still maybe see a doctor- for comfort in knowing, at least.
You're not dying. Not yet, anyway.
Sounds like a case of 'Man-Flu'
my inside of my throat feels ichy and when i cough my chest hurts and i cough up flimm
im also a hypocontreact that what my family says i think i might have thoart cancer or lung cancer but my mom said i dont and im being stupid
and i just know quited smoking cigsPlease can i get some advice i think i might be dieing?
You should worry less about your health and more about your spelling and grammar. How are you ever going to get a job with good enough benefits to allow you to afford being sick all the time?Please can i get some advice i think i might be dieing?
I believe you said that you have quit smoking as best as I could make out,so the cigarettes are your problem as you most likely have bronchitis which causes your bronchial tubes to get infected and swell shut thus causing chest pain and difficulty in breathing along with coughing up phlegm ';mucus'; You most likely have COPD which means Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disease which if left untreated may lead to pneumonia! Leave the Tobacco alone and consult a lung Specialist ( Pulmonologist } Keep in mind that you will not get better unless you quit smoking! Good Luck,God Bless and Merry Christmas!
First, my congratulations on quitting smoking cigarettes. That's a step toward life,and perhaps a long happy one at that.Secondly,rather than thinking about death, plan for life. If you have a strong will to overcome the illness you currently have, you'll do it, no matter what it takes. The positive attitude and determination is a very powerful, strong
medication.Yes,see your family doctor with the expectation that he/she's going to help you get rid of your illness. Let the doctor know you've quit smoking and show the determination you'll never return to it.Life holds a lot and you're going to be there to enjoy it for many years to come reaping its rewards and meeting its challenges head on.Best wishes to you,and a long happy life to you.
Its sounds like your just a have a cold/flu. My sister is a hypocontreact also and always thinks she has cancer. My mother tells her to stop over reacting. The only way she calms down is by hearing from a doctor that she hasnt got cancer and then shes fine again. She once went to a shink and that also helped her as its all in her head. She was also put on anti depressants a while back which also helped.
Well it depends on how long you have been smoking to figure out if you have lung or throat cancer. But other than that, it's the simple flu or strep throat. Don't worry about it. Just tell your mom your symptoms and go to a doctor.
A cold isn't going to kill you. Coming down with a cold and assuming that you have lung cancer ( a disease that usually strikes people over age 50) is a bit of a stretch.
probably/hopefully just a cold. if you're really worried, just go see a doctor.
I think you're fine, but still maybe see a doctor- for comfort in knowing, at least.
You're not dying. Not yet, anyway.
Sounds like a case of 'Man-Flu'
Any Advice for getting the Heat out of my garage? or keeping it out?
specs: 20'x20', 3 windows 36';x50'; one on each wall help!! 2 car garage, Insulated just finished putting up drywall..Any Advice for getting the Heat out of my garage? or keeping it out?
a 7,000 BTU window A/C in a window on the shady side of the gagrage and curtains on the other 2Any Advice for getting the Heat out of my garage? or keeping it out?
I knew this guy that put one of those whole house fan in the wall and just opened the windows and garage door just a little an it was like air condition in there.
Did you vent the roof ? Heat trapped at the top of the roof will make the whole garage hot. A power vent attic fan may be what you need.
2x4 construction or 2x6? That matters because of the amount of insulation you can put in the walls(more the better) Also is the ceiling insulated(double the walls). Garage door for the cars insulated and the seal around the garage door tight?? Also the color outside the garage. Dark colors? Roof dark color? No different than wearing dark clothing on a summer day. (only if you want to death by heat) Windows - Singlepane? doublepane? triplepane? Look at heat as you would look at cold freezing temperatures. Same protection is required to keep temperature moderate in garage instead of ';extreme';.
which side is garage on. South side(meaning in the sun all day?) It is gonna be a cooker. Plant trees that can keep the garage in the shade will help. Build a seperate second wall with a walkway inbetween will shade the garage walls. Move your house to Paulin country will help.
a 7,000 BTU window A/C in a window on the shady side of the gagrage and curtains on the other 2Any Advice for getting the Heat out of my garage? or keeping it out?
I knew this guy that put one of those whole house fan in the wall and just opened the windows and garage door just a little an it was like air condition in there.
Did you vent the roof ? Heat trapped at the top of the roof will make the whole garage hot. A power vent attic fan may be what you need.
2x4 construction or 2x6? That matters because of the amount of insulation you can put in the walls(more the better) Also is the ceiling insulated(double the walls). Garage door for the cars insulated and the seal around the garage door tight?? Also the color outside the garage. Dark colors? Roof dark color? No different than wearing dark clothing on a summer day. (only if you want to death by heat) Windows - Singlepane? doublepane? triplepane? Look at heat as you would look at cold freezing temperatures. Same protection is required to keep temperature moderate in garage instead of ';extreme';.
which side is garage on. South side(meaning in the sun all day?) It is gonna be a cooker. Plant trees that can keep the garage in the shade will help. Build a seperate second wall with a walkway inbetween will shade the garage walls. Move your house to Paulin country will help.
Do you guys get good advice here?
I was asking because thus far, I have.Do you guys get good advice here?
Mostly I have not been seeking a lot of advice here, but I have been really enjoying meeting new people %26amp; trying to offer my 2 cents worth. I have been having a lot of fun with it too!Do you guys get good advice here?
Yes and i try to give good advice in return
yes I love Y!A
God bless
in yahoo answers? yes it is the best thing i have ever discovered in my life. well almost.
you get what you pay forg
Mostly I have not been seeking a lot of advice here, but I have been really enjoying meeting new people %26amp; trying to offer my 2 cents worth. I have been having a lot of fun with it too!Do you guys get good advice here?
Yes and i try to give good advice in return
yes I love Y!A
God bless
in yahoo answers? yes it is the best thing i have ever discovered in my life. well almost.
you get what you pay for
Any advice on getting a baby to eat and like solid food?
My 5 month old doesn't like any of it. She closes and purses her lips when we try to give it to her.Any advice on getting a baby to eat and like solid food?
She might not be ready. Don't force it on her. Take a couple of days off from solids and then try again, with something else, maybe.Any advice on getting a baby to eat and like solid food?
Maybe it's too soon?
I started solids when my little man started grabbing foods off my plate and showing a real interest in every thing I ate.
Don't force her to try it - give her food when she seems really interested, you'll have more chance of success.
Your baby might be a little young. Try again in a month. With that said, my son started refusing purees at about 8 mos. I've had to let him feed himself ever since.
my son hated it all.
we just kept trying, and eventually he took to it.
it was repetition, over and over, and then once he started we laughed about how easy it was.
i do not recommend using sugar or anything to sweeten the food up to get him to eat it, it will only make things more difficult.
just repetition and keep trying and he will eventually eat - even if it takes weeks. best of luck!
Just give it a little time and try again. She's been on a liquid diet since birth. It's totally new to her. You'll do a lot of wasting, for the first few weeks, but when she's ready, she'll eat it.
At 5 months old she may not be ready to start solid food yet. Don't force it. If you like every few days you could attempt it to see if she would like it.. but it's not important that she eats it right now. Really they should just have breastmilk or formula for the first 6 months.. and until at least 1 year breastmilk or formula should be their primary source of nutrition. Don't stress if she doesn't want it. I only breastfed my son for the first 6 months and he was fine.. 95th percentile even for length and weight! When she's ready to eat solids she will let you know!
She might not be ready. Don't force it on her. Take a couple of days off from solids and then try again, with something else, maybe.Any advice on getting a baby to eat and like solid food?
Maybe it's too soon?
I started solids when my little man started grabbing foods off my plate and showing a real interest in every thing I ate.
Don't force her to try it - give her food when she seems really interested, you'll have more chance of success.
Your baby might be a little young. Try again in a month. With that said, my son started refusing purees at about 8 mos. I've had to let him feed himself ever since.
my son hated it all.
we just kept trying, and eventually he took to it.
it was repetition, over and over, and then once he started we laughed about how easy it was.
i do not recommend using sugar or anything to sweeten the food up to get him to eat it, it will only make things more difficult.
just repetition and keep trying and he will eventually eat - even if it takes weeks. best of luck!
Just give it a little time and try again. She's been on a liquid diet since birth. It's totally new to her. You'll do a lot of wasting, for the first few weeks, but when she's ready, she'll eat it.
At 5 months old she may not be ready to start solid food yet. Don't force it. If you like every few days you could attempt it to see if she would like it.. but it's not important that she eats it right now. Really they should just have breastmilk or formula for the first 6 months.. and until at least 1 year breastmilk or formula should be their primary source of nutrition. Don't stress if she doesn't want it. I only breastfed my son for the first 6 months and he was fine.. 95th percentile even for length and weight! When she's ready to eat solids she will let you know!
I have some complane against a Reputed Airline ...to whom I can get justice or advice for legal support.Thanks
We are a group of passenger were travelling from Jeddah to Dhaka Via Doha by Qatar Airways. from origin to destination we have face a lot of sufferings,harracement and lost some of our luggages. More than 48 hours we have suffer for their rongful decission and behavior. After arriving our Destination we have make written complains to their relavant authorities in Dhka and Doha... but we are not getting anything possitive answers and action from Qatar Airways... Now what can we do? is there any office of International Air Transport Association(IATA) where we can get support or Justice.I have some complane against a Reputed Airline ...to whom I can get justice or advice for legal support.Thanks
Not really sure what harrassments and sufferings you endured. Did you lose your luggage as a result of these sufferings and harrassments? What was thier wrongful descision and behavior? They chucked your stuff out the window on climb out?
Pardon my sarcasm, but your posting doesn't communicate what you are taking issue with. Is it just lost bags? If you get to the airport when they suggest, there is ample time for said luggage to be transported to your outbound aircraft. This is the case quite often in baggage issues. Passengers run up at the last minute, and are surprised when their baggage doesn't make the aircraft.
Quatar is a member of the Arab Air Carriers Org. You could send them your comments http://www.aaco.org/contact.aspI have some complane against a Reputed Airline ...to whom I can get justice or advice for legal support.Thanks
I am fed up with this bloody compenstation culture.
I would imagine that you are not getting any positive response from the airline is because they have realised that you are a trumped up little PR*CK whos only pleasure in life is to complain
As far as I can see, justice has been done, you are obnoxious, and because of that, they lost your luggage
I sorta understnad your problem. I had been through that couple of times with Gulf Airlines. Frankly, those middle eastern chubby idoits care little about your comfort or complain. So forget it and go on with your life. Complaining at bangladesh won't help either. Because ppl are corrupt their. Unless you spend some money, you may not get to your legal rights. So my advice, Forget it and avoid Qatar air for your next trip.
-Guru
http://bengaliguru.com
Mistakes happen, stop whinging and put it down to experience
Okay, did you 'lose' the luggage or did it arrive late???
your bags have a lot of checkpoints and connections to make on your journey---sometimes they are held up, maybe at customs.
Relax and give the airline a break, think about how you treated the staff....and remember you get more flies with honey than with vinegar---------think about how you presented yourself to the staff.
Not really sure what harrassments and sufferings you endured. Did you lose your luggage as a result of these sufferings and harrassments? What was thier wrongful descision and behavior? They chucked your stuff out the window on climb out?
Pardon my sarcasm, but your posting doesn't communicate what you are taking issue with. Is it just lost bags? If you get to the airport when they suggest, there is ample time for said luggage to be transported to your outbound aircraft. This is the case quite often in baggage issues. Passengers run up at the last minute, and are surprised when their baggage doesn't make the aircraft.
Quatar is a member of the Arab Air Carriers Org. You could send them your comments http://www.aaco.org/contact.aspI have some complane against a Reputed Airline ...to whom I can get justice or advice for legal support.Thanks
I am fed up with this bloody compenstation culture.
I would imagine that you are not getting any positive response from the airline is because they have realised that you are a trumped up little PR*CK whos only pleasure in life is to complain
As far as I can see, justice has been done, you are obnoxious, and because of that, they lost your luggage
I sorta understnad your problem. I had been through that couple of times with Gulf Airlines. Frankly, those middle eastern chubby idoits care little about your comfort or complain. So forget it and go on with your life. Complaining at bangladesh won't help either. Because ppl are corrupt their. Unless you spend some money, you may not get to your legal rights. So my advice, Forget it and avoid Qatar air for your next trip.
-Guru
http://bengaliguru.com
Mistakes happen, stop whinging and put it down to experience
Okay, did you 'lose' the luggage or did it arrive late???
your bags have a lot of checkpoints and connections to make on your journey---sometimes they are held up, maybe at customs.
Relax and give the airline a break, think about how you treated the staff....and remember you get more flies with honey than with vinegar---------think about how you presented yourself to the staff.
I get dolled up for hubby but he's not interested. Has been 2 weeks since we had sex and am prego. need advice?
I want to feel appreciated and loved. I surprise him w/ gifts and clean for him. I am just tired of trying so hard and not getting any results. Have been married 3 years and in our 20's.I get dolled up for hubby but he's not interested. Has been 2 weeks since we had sex and am prego. need advice?
Angie,
My perspective is that marriage makes you feel trapped. It makes every little thing much more important because you feel stuck with it for life. It alters your expectations of each other and you don't feel you live up to them. Not surprisingly, you feel bad, you row, then you can't show affection because you don't feel it.
Communication is key. Spicing things up is, too.
My wife and I tried this website ... Hundred sex games ... It is Erotic, in its noblest meaning. It was like falling in Love all over again. Our relationship has reached a new level thanks to a few of those ';games'; that we have carefully selected.
Good luck!I get dolled up for hubby but he's not interested. Has been 2 weeks since we had sex and am prego. need advice?
Babies change sex lives, even before they arrive.
I suggest you arrange an assortment of candles in the bathroom and prepare a hot bubble bath for him when he arrives home from work. Let him know the bath is for him so he doesn't get involved in anything else (e.g. television, gaming). Light the candles, turn off the light, and let him enter the bath.
While he's in the tub, come back with a scarf or bandanna and blindfold him with it. The rest is up to you, and should end up as some good sex, especially if you leave the blindfold on, or use it yourself.
2 weeks is nothing. 2 years then you've got a problem.
When my wife was pregnant with each kid (2) we hardly had sex 4 or 6 times a year. I wanted her all the time but she was just tired and crabby forever, or even if she was in a good mood she would say ';not now';. We're in our 40's now and I'm angry over being rejected for sex for most of my 30's.
He might be afraid to hurt the baby. Although, that won't happen. Talk to him about that, make sure that he isn't worried about that. One thing that you could do is surprise him with making him happy, if you know what I mean.... How could he say no to that? When he is in bed and you are talking, or maybe he is drifting off to sleep, pull up the blankets and get busy..... Good luck.
You have to be patiente. It looks like men and women have different necessities and priorities. Unfortunately, we can't live without them (me). Perhaps, you could try to get yourself distracted with some hobby or something, till he gets back to you.
I don't know, men sometimes can be so rude and insensitive....
He has likely assumed you dont want to, therefore he is subconsciously missing all of the clues you are leaving for him. The only way to fix that is to tell him directly. Once he knows you are up for it, he's more likely to reciprocate.
Instead of trying to get him to do what YOU want, why not initiate things by doing what you know that HE wants? and in the end you might find that a see thru nighty works a lot better than flannel pajamas!
The whole family thing might be starting to actually hit him now. I strongly suggest you guys get some marriage counseling so you could prevent any complications in the future !
tELL THAT YOU NEED IT!!! be blunt just say '; let;s f**k'; Men love it when your straight to the point. Plus hun, maybe he's a little stressed out to. Babies brings lot's of stress. Understandable.
Sorry, Angie. You don't have a husband----you have a room mate.
He might be worried that he would hurt the baby. Tell him it's no big deal, that you can do it side by side.
You should have patience. May be there is good in it.
tell him, I won't be prego forever ******!
u need to tell him how he is making u feel unless u tell him he cant do anything about it
Sorry to sound grose, but if you give him a BJ I bet it will get better!!!
tell him you want to have sex
good luck!
I know my husband has been in a jerky mood as well for three days now. All of a sudden he wont talk to me or let me know what is bothering him. Ive tried being kind and making him lunch and dinner. He doesnt say thankyou or anything to me. To me I might as well not even went out of my way. I am in your shoes too. It hurts doesnt it! We have a 2yr old and been married for almost 5 yrs. He insists that I spend too many of my emotions and love on our son? Whatever, all I can tell you is it will only get worse once the baby comes along. Men sometimes feel jealous you send so much time being a mother as opposed to their wife. Im sorry though in my books mother hood comes first. Good luck. Im almost 30 and havent figured this one out.
Angie,
My perspective is that marriage makes you feel trapped. It makes every little thing much more important because you feel stuck with it for life. It alters your expectations of each other and you don't feel you live up to them. Not surprisingly, you feel bad, you row, then you can't show affection because you don't feel it.
Communication is key. Spicing things up is, too.
My wife and I tried this website ... Hundred sex games ... It is Erotic, in its noblest meaning. It was like falling in Love all over again. Our relationship has reached a new level thanks to a few of those ';games'; that we have carefully selected.
Good luck!I get dolled up for hubby but he's not interested. Has been 2 weeks since we had sex and am prego. need advice?
Babies change sex lives, even before they arrive.
I suggest you arrange an assortment of candles in the bathroom and prepare a hot bubble bath for him when he arrives home from work. Let him know the bath is for him so he doesn't get involved in anything else (e.g. television, gaming). Light the candles, turn off the light, and let him enter the bath.
While he's in the tub, come back with a scarf or bandanna and blindfold him with it. The rest is up to you, and should end up as some good sex, especially if you leave the blindfold on, or use it yourself.
2 weeks is nothing. 2 years then you've got a problem.
When my wife was pregnant with each kid (2) we hardly had sex 4 or 6 times a year. I wanted her all the time but she was just tired and crabby forever, or even if she was in a good mood she would say ';not now';. We're in our 40's now and I'm angry over being rejected for sex for most of my 30's.
He might be afraid to hurt the baby. Although, that won't happen. Talk to him about that, make sure that he isn't worried about that. One thing that you could do is surprise him with making him happy, if you know what I mean.... How could he say no to that? When he is in bed and you are talking, or maybe he is drifting off to sleep, pull up the blankets and get busy..... Good luck.
You have to be patiente. It looks like men and women have different necessities and priorities. Unfortunately, we can't live without them (me). Perhaps, you could try to get yourself distracted with some hobby or something, till he gets back to you.
I don't know, men sometimes can be so rude and insensitive....
He has likely assumed you dont want to, therefore he is subconsciously missing all of the clues you are leaving for him. The only way to fix that is to tell him directly. Once he knows you are up for it, he's more likely to reciprocate.
Instead of trying to get him to do what YOU want, why not initiate things by doing what you know that HE wants? and in the end you might find that a see thru nighty works a lot better than flannel pajamas!
The whole family thing might be starting to actually hit him now. I strongly suggest you guys get some marriage counseling so you could prevent any complications in the future !
tELL THAT YOU NEED IT!!! be blunt just say '; let;s f**k'; Men love it when your straight to the point. Plus hun, maybe he's a little stressed out to. Babies brings lot's of stress. Understandable.
Sorry, Angie. You don't have a husband----you have a room mate.
He might be worried that he would hurt the baby. Tell him it's no big deal, that you can do it side by side.
You should have patience. May be there is good in it.
tell him, I won't be prego forever ******!
u need to tell him how he is making u feel unless u tell him he cant do anything about it
Sorry to sound grose, but if you give him a BJ I bet it will get better!!!
tell him you want to have sex
good luck!
I know my husband has been in a jerky mood as well for three days now. All of a sudden he wont talk to me or let me know what is bothering him. Ive tried being kind and making him lunch and dinner. He doesnt say thankyou or anything to me. To me I might as well not even went out of my way. I am in your shoes too. It hurts doesnt it! We have a 2yr old and been married for almost 5 yrs. He insists that I spend too many of my emotions and love on our son? Whatever, all I can tell you is it will only get worse once the baby comes along. Men sometimes feel jealous you send so much time being a mother as opposed to their wife. Im sorry though in my books mother hood comes first. Good luck. Im almost 30 and havent figured this one out.
Any advice on getting rid of the pacifier?
My son just turned two years old and I am really ready for him to be done with his pacifier. Do you have any suggestions that would make this a smooth transition for us? He is down to only having it at nap time and night time, but we would like to be done with it altogether now. Any advice would be great.Any advice on getting rid of the pacifier?
I just read an article in';American Baby'; with some ideas that might help.
1.Take the pacifier to ';Build-A-Bear'; and your child can make his very own ';Binky Bear.'; Have your son place the pacifier inside before they stich the bear up.
2. Tell him about the ';Binky Fair.'; Before he goes to bed, he can gather up all his binkies for the fairy, and the next morning he will find a new toy from the ';Binky Fairy.';
3. Gradually cut the tip off the pacifier. After a week or two, all of the suction will be gone and the child will loose interest.Any advice on getting rid of the pacifier?
My daughter put her dummies out for the 'dummy fairy' in a special bag, and in the morning the dummy fairy had come and taken them away, and had left her a special gift for her.
An extra special touch is to sprinkle some 'fairy dust' (glitter) in a trail on the ground..makes it quite a magical experience.
This scheme worked beautifully! And when she was missing her dummies, we reminded her that we were so proud of her, and so was the dummy fairy! :)
IT'S BEEN TIME TO GET RID OF IT. THE OLDER HE GETS IT MAYBE HARDER FOR HIM TO LET GO BECAUSE HE IS USE TO IT. THE AGE HE SHOULD HAVE GOT RID OF IT IS BEFORE 1 YEARS OLD. WHAT I CAN TELL YOU NOW IS TO TAKE IT AWAY STEP BY STEP. STOP GIVING IT TO HIM AT NAP TIME. NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE CRY FOR IT DO NOT GIVE IT TO HIM. THEN ONCE YOU HAVE DONE THAT TAKE IT AWAY AT BED TIME ONCE AGAIN LET HIM CRY HE WILL GET OVER IT. THAT'S THE ONLY WAY I KNOW BECAUSE YOU WAITED TO LONG TO TAKE IT AWAY. I HAD IT EASY MY DAUGHTER NEVER SUCKED ON ONE. SHE ALWAYS WAS A BOTTLE BABY.
It comforts him, so there is no easy way, so just take it away.
having the dentist tell my son it was time to get rid of the pacifier worked like a charm for us. the pediatrician told my sister when she was 2 that the she was to big and wasn't allowed to use it and she gave it up easily too.
it is amazing the influence a doctor can have on a child. :)
since you have weaned it down to just sleeping times i would probably start talking about when you are going to give it up. maybe on his birthday or when the Easter Bunny comes he is going to bring you some big boy prizes which means that you can't have your pacifier anymore. let him be prepared that it is coming so it isn't a shock. when it is time make it clear that no more pacifier. he isn't allowed to have it anymore because he is now almost 3. he'll understand. do it cold turkey. throw them out of the house so you aren't tempted to give in. having it around to see it is torture to a child. be able to open the cabinets and say, ';No binky here, none under the bed, not in my purse...';
If you are nervous about it you could take it away at nap times first. Crying during nap is easier to handle then at night when you are all exhausted. If you see that he can soothe himself to sleep without the pacifier during the day then you'll know that he'll be perfectly fine at night.
Good Luck. SD
This worked for me
Wait until you see him drop it on the floor and as soon as he does tell him that it is yucky and make HIM throw it away. Later when he asks for it remind him about how he threw it away and that it is all gone. I did this with my son and after about two days he didn't even ask for it anymore.
Once he's asleep, take all his paci's and cut off the nipple part. Then just put them back where they were. In the morning, when he reaches for it, he will wonder what happened and question it. Tell him that they broke. Act like ';OH my, the paci's broke! We can't fix them';. He'll ask for them often and probably carry the broken ones, but after a few days he won't miss them.
This worked brilliantly with my son. We did it cold turkey, and didn't give him any at night either. He may wake up the first couple of nights, but will be okay soon after. I know it's hard, but it's worth it.
According to my mother, we had several 'binkies' around the house. SHe got tired of us using them at all times of the day and night. She had us, me and my twin sister, gather them all up and put them in a bag and take them to the post office. She told us that there was a bad storm overseas and none of those children had binkies so we was going to send them ours. We was so willing to help we even threw the ones right out of mouths in the bag. She wrote a note telling the postmaster to ';throw this away when i leave'; and put it on the box. We thought we were so great for helping others. Becuase we were so kind we got to go to the store and get a new toy. Not for being big girls and giving up our binkies, but for wanting to help other children. This lesson in life has really taugh me alot, Im so giving and caring it isnt even funny. Way to go Mom!
-Start Gradually
Start with only giving her a pacifier at nap or bed times to soothe herself to sleep. Tell her that her pacifier is only for sleepy time. Gradually work the pacifier out of the naptime routines, until she is only using it to sleep at night. Eventually “lose” the pacifier for bedtime. Your toddler should adjust within a couple of days.
-Substitute Other Toys
If your child won’t give up the pacifier, have her trade it in for another toy or a special activity. At night, give your toddler a stuffed animal or special blanket instead of the pacifier for comfort.
-Peer Pressure
Keep your toddler playing with other children so that she models her behavior from them. (Choose non-pacifier sucking playmates)
-Rewards
Try a Reward Chart and give her stickers for getting through the day without her pacifier, if she is old enough to understand this. Give her lots of hugs, kisses, and “I’m proud of you”s.
-Be Consistent
Do not give in to your toddler through a tantrum or bedtime crying. If you eventually give in and give her the pacifier, she will become confused. Stick to your guns and she will come around.
I told my son that binkys were for babies and that he was a big boy. He looked at me and said ok. That was the last time he asked for 1 unless he was sick.
i had 4 kids I found the best tip is to let them throw it in the trash or out a window. Then they will forget about it in 2 days.
Tell him the binkie fairy needs binkies for the newborns and other babies out there. Together--gather all the binkies up in a bag. Tie them to a tree out side or sit them somewhere out side some evening. Tell him the binkie fairy will bring him something for the binkies. A gift. (get him a gift) The next morning, take him out to see what the binkie fairy got for him. Make sure you did something with the binkies. He will be so excited and also pleased with himself that he has helped other babies who need those binkies.
if you dip it in something nasty but safe for them like something with a sour taste they are sure to put that thing down for good.
If he's alread down to night and nap, all you can do is take it away. I mean, what else is left? You can offer him a prize, the cost of which is his pacifier, or you can tell him the paci fairy will come and leave him a toy if he puts it under his pillow, etc etc etc, but I am a fan of cold turkey personally. We took our daugther's away on her birthday and it was no big deal.
I had my two year old down to just having the pacifier at naptime and nighttime, and we had discussed that at a certain point, we would get rid of all pacifiers. We made it a big deal (acting as if it was really exciting to be a big girl, etc.) and we pulled out the trash can and threw them all away. Get rid of them so you won't be tempted to give them back. I also did this at the end of the week when I was not working so that we could allow for slow adjusting. After a few days, she didn't miss her pacifiers at all.
Why would you want to have your child give up something that is a source of comfort for him? I say leave him alone...when he is ready he will give it up. My daughter gave her's up on her own before she was three . If he doesn't it's really no big deal, They don't do naps in school so he won't have it there and who is he hurting by having it at bedtime?
Start telling him that he doesnt need it to sleep. then take him to do ';big boy'; activities if he looses it for a nap. Or take his favorite caracter from a movie or show and show him that they dont use a passy. Just try to motivate him from a baby to a big boy.
Let nature takes its course. No point forcing. In time he'll grow out of it. No kids takes pacifier to school!
This is what worked for me, I cut the top of the soother, and so, when my daughter put it in her mouth, it was weird and not the same, and she just took out of her mouth and threw it on the floor, and started crying, and she would ask me for it, then I am like, you want it, here you go, take it, and she would not like it because of the whole in the middle.....
This may sound abrupt, but throw it away. It won't take long for him to get used to it. He will be fine. The bigger deal you make of this, the bigger he will think it is. Tell him he is a big boy and he doesn't need it anymore. You may have to suffer through the crankiness for a few days but it will be over very quickly this way. And don't give in and buy a new one if things get tough. Stick with it, he will be fine (unless he is a special needs child who has extreme difficulty with transitions, then I would talk to a professional, not someone on Yahoo)
I just read an article in';American Baby'; with some ideas that might help.
1.Take the pacifier to ';Build-A-Bear'; and your child can make his very own ';Binky Bear.'; Have your son place the pacifier inside before they stich the bear up.
2. Tell him about the ';Binky Fair.'; Before he goes to bed, he can gather up all his binkies for the fairy, and the next morning he will find a new toy from the ';Binky Fairy.';
3. Gradually cut the tip off the pacifier. After a week or two, all of the suction will be gone and the child will loose interest.Any advice on getting rid of the pacifier?
My daughter put her dummies out for the 'dummy fairy' in a special bag, and in the morning the dummy fairy had come and taken them away, and had left her a special gift for her.
An extra special touch is to sprinkle some 'fairy dust' (glitter) in a trail on the ground..makes it quite a magical experience.
This scheme worked beautifully! And when she was missing her dummies, we reminded her that we were so proud of her, and so was the dummy fairy! :)
IT'S BEEN TIME TO GET RID OF IT. THE OLDER HE GETS IT MAYBE HARDER FOR HIM TO LET GO BECAUSE HE IS USE TO IT. THE AGE HE SHOULD HAVE GOT RID OF IT IS BEFORE 1 YEARS OLD. WHAT I CAN TELL YOU NOW IS TO TAKE IT AWAY STEP BY STEP. STOP GIVING IT TO HIM AT NAP TIME. NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE CRY FOR IT DO NOT GIVE IT TO HIM. THEN ONCE YOU HAVE DONE THAT TAKE IT AWAY AT BED TIME ONCE AGAIN LET HIM CRY HE WILL GET OVER IT. THAT'S THE ONLY WAY I KNOW BECAUSE YOU WAITED TO LONG TO TAKE IT AWAY. I HAD IT EASY MY DAUGHTER NEVER SUCKED ON ONE. SHE ALWAYS WAS A BOTTLE BABY.
It comforts him, so there is no easy way, so just take it away.
having the dentist tell my son it was time to get rid of the pacifier worked like a charm for us. the pediatrician told my sister when she was 2 that the she was to big and wasn't allowed to use it and she gave it up easily too.
it is amazing the influence a doctor can have on a child. :)
since you have weaned it down to just sleeping times i would probably start talking about when you are going to give it up. maybe on his birthday or when the Easter Bunny comes he is going to bring you some big boy prizes which means that you can't have your pacifier anymore. let him be prepared that it is coming so it isn't a shock. when it is time make it clear that no more pacifier. he isn't allowed to have it anymore because he is now almost 3. he'll understand. do it cold turkey. throw them out of the house so you aren't tempted to give in. having it around to see it is torture to a child. be able to open the cabinets and say, ';No binky here, none under the bed, not in my purse...';
If you are nervous about it you could take it away at nap times first. Crying during nap is easier to handle then at night when you are all exhausted. If you see that he can soothe himself to sleep without the pacifier during the day then you'll know that he'll be perfectly fine at night.
Good Luck. SD
This worked for me
Wait until you see him drop it on the floor and as soon as he does tell him that it is yucky and make HIM throw it away. Later when he asks for it remind him about how he threw it away and that it is all gone. I did this with my son and after about two days he didn't even ask for it anymore.
Once he's asleep, take all his paci's and cut off the nipple part. Then just put them back where they were. In the morning, when he reaches for it, he will wonder what happened and question it. Tell him that they broke. Act like ';OH my, the paci's broke! We can't fix them';. He'll ask for them often and probably carry the broken ones, but after a few days he won't miss them.
This worked brilliantly with my son. We did it cold turkey, and didn't give him any at night either. He may wake up the first couple of nights, but will be okay soon after. I know it's hard, but it's worth it.
According to my mother, we had several 'binkies' around the house. SHe got tired of us using them at all times of the day and night. She had us, me and my twin sister, gather them all up and put them in a bag and take them to the post office. She told us that there was a bad storm overseas and none of those children had binkies so we was going to send them ours. We was so willing to help we even threw the ones right out of mouths in the bag. She wrote a note telling the postmaster to ';throw this away when i leave'; and put it on the box. We thought we were so great for helping others. Becuase we were so kind we got to go to the store and get a new toy. Not for being big girls and giving up our binkies, but for wanting to help other children. This lesson in life has really taugh me alot, Im so giving and caring it isnt even funny. Way to go Mom!
-Start Gradually
Start with only giving her a pacifier at nap or bed times to soothe herself to sleep. Tell her that her pacifier is only for sleepy time. Gradually work the pacifier out of the naptime routines, until she is only using it to sleep at night. Eventually “lose” the pacifier for bedtime. Your toddler should adjust within a couple of days.
-Substitute Other Toys
If your child won’t give up the pacifier, have her trade it in for another toy or a special activity. At night, give your toddler a stuffed animal or special blanket instead of the pacifier for comfort.
-Peer Pressure
Keep your toddler playing with other children so that she models her behavior from them. (Choose non-pacifier sucking playmates)
-Rewards
Try a Reward Chart and give her stickers for getting through the day without her pacifier, if she is old enough to understand this. Give her lots of hugs, kisses, and “I’m proud of you”s.
-Be Consistent
Do not give in to your toddler through a tantrum or bedtime crying. If you eventually give in and give her the pacifier, she will become confused. Stick to your guns and she will come around.
I told my son that binkys were for babies and that he was a big boy. He looked at me and said ok. That was the last time he asked for 1 unless he was sick.
i had 4 kids I found the best tip is to let them throw it in the trash or out a window. Then they will forget about it in 2 days.
Tell him the binkie fairy needs binkies for the newborns and other babies out there. Together--gather all the binkies up in a bag. Tie them to a tree out side or sit them somewhere out side some evening. Tell him the binkie fairy will bring him something for the binkies. A gift. (get him a gift) The next morning, take him out to see what the binkie fairy got for him. Make sure you did something with the binkies. He will be so excited and also pleased with himself that he has helped other babies who need those binkies.
if you dip it in something nasty but safe for them like something with a sour taste they are sure to put that thing down for good.
If he's alread down to night and nap, all you can do is take it away. I mean, what else is left? You can offer him a prize, the cost of which is his pacifier, or you can tell him the paci fairy will come and leave him a toy if he puts it under his pillow, etc etc etc, but I am a fan of cold turkey personally. We took our daugther's away on her birthday and it was no big deal.
I had my two year old down to just having the pacifier at naptime and nighttime, and we had discussed that at a certain point, we would get rid of all pacifiers. We made it a big deal (acting as if it was really exciting to be a big girl, etc.) and we pulled out the trash can and threw them all away. Get rid of them so you won't be tempted to give them back. I also did this at the end of the week when I was not working so that we could allow for slow adjusting. After a few days, she didn't miss her pacifiers at all.
Why would you want to have your child give up something that is a source of comfort for him? I say leave him alone...when he is ready he will give it up. My daughter gave her's up on her own before she was three . If he doesn't it's really no big deal, They don't do naps in school so he won't have it there and who is he hurting by having it at bedtime?
Start telling him that he doesnt need it to sleep. then take him to do ';big boy'; activities if he looses it for a nap. Or take his favorite caracter from a movie or show and show him that they dont use a passy. Just try to motivate him from a baby to a big boy.
Let nature takes its course. No point forcing. In time he'll grow out of it. No kids takes pacifier to school!
This is what worked for me, I cut the top of the soother, and so, when my daughter put it in her mouth, it was weird and not the same, and she just took out of her mouth and threw it on the floor, and started crying, and she would ask me for it, then I am like, you want it, here you go, take it, and she would not like it because of the whole in the middle.....
This may sound abrupt, but throw it away. It won't take long for him to get used to it. He will be fine. The bigger deal you make of this, the bigger he will think it is. Tell him he is a big boy and he doesn't need it anymore. You may have to suffer through the crankiness for a few days but it will be over very quickly this way. And don't give in and buy a new one if things get tough. Stick with it, he will be fine (unless he is a special needs child who has extreme difficulty with transitions, then I would talk to a professional, not someone on Yahoo)
I get dolled up for hubby but he's not interested. Has been 2 weeks since we had sex and am prego. need advice?
I want to feel appreciated and loved. I surprise him w/ gifts and clean for him. I am just tired of trying so hard and not getting any results. Have been married 3 years and in our 20's.I get dolled up for hubby but he's not interested. Has been 2 weeks since we had sex and am prego. need advice?
Angie,
My perspective is that marriage makes you feel trapped. It makes every little thing much more important because you feel stuck with it for life. It alters your expectations of each other and you don't feel you live up to them. Not surprisingly, you feel bad, you row, then you can't show affection because you don't feel it.
Communication is key. Spicing things up is, too.
My wife and I tried this website ... Hundred sex games ... It is Erotic, in its noblest meaning. It was like falling in Love all over again. Our relationship has reached a new level thanks to a few of those ';games'; that we have carefully selected.
Good luck!I get dolled up for hubby but he's not interested. Has been 2 weeks since we had sex and am prego. need advice?
Babies change sex lives, even before they arrive.
I suggest you arrange an assortment of candles in the bathroom and prepare a hot bubble bath for him when he arrives home from work. Let him know the bath is for him so he doesn't get involved in anything else (e.g. television, gaming). Light the candles, turn off the light, and let him enter the bath.
While he's in the tub, come back with a scarf or bandanna and blindfold him with it. The rest is up to you, and should end up as some good sex, especially if you leave the blindfold on, or use it yourself.
2 weeks is nothing. 2 years then you've got a problem.
When my wife was pregnant with each kid (2) we hardly had sex 4 or 6 times a year. I wanted her all the time but she was just tired and crabby forever, or even if she was in a good mood she would say ';not now';. We're in our 40's now and I'm angry over being rejected for sex for most of my 30's.
He might be afraid to hurt the baby. Although, that won't happen. Talk to him about that, make sure that he isn't worried about that. One thing that you could do is surprise him with making him happy, if you know what I mean.... How could he say no to that? When he is in bed and you are talking, or maybe he is drifting off to sleep, pull up the blankets and get busy..... Good luck.
You have to be patiente. It looks like men and women have different necessities and priorities. Unfortunately, we can't live without them (me). Perhaps, you could try to get yourself distracted with some hobby or something, till he gets back to you.
I don't know, men sometimes can be so rude and insensitive....
He has likely assumed you dont want to, therefore he is subconsciously missing all of the clues you are leaving for him. The only way to fix that is to tell him directly. Once he knows you are up for it, he's more likely to reciprocate.
Instead of trying to get him to do what YOU want, why not initiate things by doing what you know that HE wants? and in the end you might find that a see thru nighty works a lot better than flannel pajamas!
The whole family thing might be starting to actually hit him now. I strongly suggest you guys get some marriage counseling so you could prevent any complications in the future !
tELL THAT YOU NEED IT!!! be blunt just say '; let;s f**k'; Men love it when your straight to the point. Plus hun, maybe he's a little stressed out to. Babies brings lot's of stress. Understandable.
Sorry, Angie. You don't have a husband----you have a room mate.
He might be worried that he would hurt the baby. Tell him it's no big deal, that you can do it side by side.
You should have patience. May be there is good in it.
tell him, I won't be prego forever ******!
u need to tell him how he is making u feel unless u tell him he cant do anything about it
Sorry to sound grose, but if you give him a BJ I bet it will get better!!!
tell him you want to have sex
good luck!
I know my husband has been in a jerky mood as well for three days now. All of a sudden he wont talk to me or let me know what is bothering him. Ive tried being kind and making him lunch and dinner. He doesnt say thankyou or anything to me. To me I might as well not even went out of my way. I am in your shoes too. It hurts doesnt it! We have a 2yr old and been married for almost 5 yrs. He insists that I spend too many of my emotions and love on our son? Whatever, all I can tell you is it will only get worse once the baby comes along. Men sometimes feel jealous you send so much time being a mother as opposed to their wife. Im sorry though in my books mother hood comes first. Good luck. Im almost 30 and havent figured this one out.
Angie,
My perspective is that marriage makes you feel trapped. It makes every little thing much more important because you feel stuck with it for life. It alters your expectations of each other and you don't feel you live up to them. Not surprisingly, you feel bad, you row, then you can't show affection because you don't feel it.
Communication is key. Spicing things up is, too.
My wife and I tried this website ... Hundred sex games ... It is Erotic, in its noblest meaning. It was like falling in Love all over again. Our relationship has reached a new level thanks to a few of those ';games'; that we have carefully selected.
Good luck!I get dolled up for hubby but he's not interested. Has been 2 weeks since we had sex and am prego. need advice?
Babies change sex lives, even before they arrive.
I suggest you arrange an assortment of candles in the bathroom and prepare a hot bubble bath for him when he arrives home from work. Let him know the bath is for him so he doesn't get involved in anything else (e.g. television, gaming). Light the candles, turn off the light, and let him enter the bath.
While he's in the tub, come back with a scarf or bandanna and blindfold him with it. The rest is up to you, and should end up as some good sex, especially if you leave the blindfold on, or use it yourself.
2 weeks is nothing. 2 years then you've got a problem.
When my wife was pregnant with each kid (2) we hardly had sex 4 or 6 times a year. I wanted her all the time but she was just tired and crabby forever, or even if she was in a good mood she would say ';not now';. We're in our 40's now and I'm angry over being rejected for sex for most of my 30's.
He might be afraid to hurt the baby. Although, that won't happen. Talk to him about that, make sure that he isn't worried about that. One thing that you could do is surprise him with making him happy, if you know what I mean.... How could he say no to that? When he is in bed and you are talking, or maybe he is drifting off to sleep, pull up the blankets and get busy..... Good luck.
You have to be patiente. It looks like men and women have different necessities and priorities. Unfortunately, we can't live without them (me). Perhaps, you could try to get yourself distracted with some hobby or something, till he gets back to you.
I don't know, men sometimes can be so rude and insensitive....
He has likely assumed you dont want to, therefore he is subconsciously missing all of the clues you are leaving for him. The only way to fix that is to tell him directly. Once he knows you are up for it, he's more likely to reciprocate.
Instead of trying to get him to do what YOU want, why not initiate things by doing what you know that HE wants? and in the end you might find that a see thru nighty works a lot better than flannel pajamas!
The whole family thing might be starting to actually hit him now. I strongly suggest you guys get some marriage counseling so you could prevent any complications in the future !
tELL THAT YOU NEED IT!!! be blunt just say '; let;s f**k'; Men love it when your straight to the point. Plus hun, maybe he's a little stressed out to. Babies brings lot's of stress. Understandable.
Sorry, Angie. You don't have a husband----you have a room mate.
He might be worried that he would hurt the baby. Tell him it's no big deal, that you can do it side by side.
You should have patience. May be there is good in it.
tell him, I won't be prego forever ******!
u need to tell him how he is making u feel unless u tell him he cant do anything about it
Sorry to sound grose, but if you give him a BJ I bet it will get better!!!
tell him you want to have sex
good luck!
I know my husband has been in a jerky mood as well for three days now. All of a sudden he wont talk to me or let me know what is bothering him. Ive tried being kind and making him lunch and dinner. He doesnt say thankyou or anything to me. To me I might as well not even went out of my way. I am in your shoes too. It hurts doesnt it! We have a 2yr old and been married for almost 5 yrs. He insists that I spend too many of my emotions and love on our son? Whatever, all I can tell you is it will only get worse once the baby comes along. Men sometimes feel jealous you send so much time being a mother as opposed to their wife. Im sorry though in my books mother hood comes first. Good luck. Im almost 30 and havent figured this one out.
Any advice on getting rid of the pacifier?
My son just turned two years old and I am really ready for him to be done with his pacifier. Do you have any suggestions that would make this a smooth transition for us? He is down to only having it at nap time and night time, but we would like to be done with it altogether now. Any advice would be great.Any advice on getting rid of the pacifier?
I just read an article in';American Baby'; with some ideas that might help.
1.Take the pacifier to ';Build-A-Bear'; and your child can make his very own ';Binky Bear.'; Have your son place the pacifier inside before they stich the bear up.
2. Tell him about the ';Binky Fair.'; Before he goes to bed, he can gather up all his binkies for the fairy, and the next morning he will find a new toy from the ';Binky Fairy.';
3. Gradually cut the tip off the pacifier. After a week or two, all of the suction will be gone and the child will loose interest.Any advice on getting rid of the pacifier?
My daughter put her dummies out for the 'dummy fairy' in a special bag, and in the morning the dummy fairy had come and taken them away, and had left her a special gift for her.
An extra special touch is to sprinkle some 'fairy dust' (glitter) in a trail on the ground..makes it quite a magical experience.
This scheme worked beautifully! And when she was missing her dummies, we reminded her that we were so proud of her, and so was the dummy fairy! :)
IT'S BEEN TIME TO GET RID OF IT. THE OLDER HE GETS IT MAYBE HARDER FOR HIM TO LET GO BECAUSE HE IS USE TO IT. THE AGE HE SHOULD HAVE GOT RID OF IT IS BEFORE 1 YEARS OLD. WHAT I CAN TELL YOU NOW IS TO TAKE IT AWAY STEP BY STEP. STOP GIVING IT TO HIM AT NAP TIME. NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE CRY FOR IT DO NOT GIVE IT TO HIM. THEN ONCE YOU HAVE DONE THAT TAKE IT AWAY AT BED TIME ONCE AGAIN LET HIM CRY HE WILL GET OVER IT. THAT'S THE ONLY WAY I KNOW BECAUSE YOU WAITED TO LONG TO TAKE IT AWAY. I HAD IT EASY MY DAUGHTER NEVER SUCKED ON ONE. SHE ALWAYS WAS A BOTTLE BABY.
It comforts him, so there is no easy way, so just take it away.
having the dentist tell my son it was time to get rid of the pacifier worked like a charm for us. the pediatrician told my sister when she was 2 that the she was to big and wasn't allowed to use it and she gave it up easily too.
it is amazing the influence a doctor can have on a child. :)
since you have weaned it down to just sleeping times i would probably start talking about when you are going to give it up. maybe on his birthday or when the Easter Bunny comes he is going to bring you some big boy prizes which means that you can't have your pacifier anymore. let him be prepared that it is coming so it isn't a shock. when it is time make it clear that no more pacifier. he isn't allowed to have it anymore because he is now almost 3. he'll understand. do it cold turkey. throw them out of the house so you aren't tempted to give in. having it around to see it is torture to a child. be able to open the cabinets and say, ';No binky here, none under the bed, not in my purse...';
If you are nervous about it you could take it away at nap times first. Crying during nap is easier to handle then at night when you are all exhausted. If you see that he can soothe himself to sleep without the pacifier during the day then you'll know that he'll be perfectly fine at night.
Good Luck. SD
This worked for me
Wait until you see him drop it on the floor and as soon as he does tell him that it is yucky and make HIM throw it away. Later when he asks for it remind him about how he threw it away and that it is all gone. I did this with my son and after about two days he didn't even ask for it anymore.
Once he's asleep, take all his paci's and cut off the nipple part. Then just put them back where they were. In the morning, when he reaches for it, he will wonder what happened and question it. Tell him that they broke. Act like ';OH my, the paci's broke! We can't fix them';. He'll ask for them often and probably carry the broken ones, but after a few days he won't miss them.
This worked brilliantly with my son. We did it cold turkey, and didn't give him any at night either. He may wake up the first couple of nights, but will be okay soon after. I know it's hard, but it's worth it.
According to my mother, we had several 'binkies' around the house. SHe got tired of us using them at all times of the day and night. She had us, me and my twin sister, gather them all up and put them in a bag and take them to the post office. She told us that there was a bad storm overseas and none of those children had binkies so we was going to send them ours. We was so willing to help we even threw the ones right out of mouths in the bag. She wrote a note telling the postmaster to ';throw this away when i leave'; and put it on the box. We thought we were so great for helping others. Becuase we were so kind we got to go to the store and get a new toy. Not for being big girls and giving up our binkies, but for wanting to help other children. This lesson in life has really taugh me alot, Im so giving and caring it isnt even funny. Way to go Mom!
-Start Gradually
Start with only giving her a pacifier at nap or bed times to soothe herself to sleep. Tell her that her pacifier is only for sleepy time. Gradually work the pacifier out of the naptime routines, until she is only using it to sleep at night. Eventually “lose” the pacifier for bedtime. Your toddler should adjust within a couple of days.
-Substitute Other Toys
If your child won’t give up the pacifier, have her trade it in for another toy or a special activity. At night, give your toddler a stuffed animal or special blanket instead of the pacifier for comfort.
-Peer Pressure
Keep your toddler playing with other children so that she models her behavior from them. (Choose non-pacifier sucking playmates)
-Rewards
Try a Reward Chart and give her stickers for getting through the day without her pacifier, if she is old enough to understand this. Give her lots of hugs, kisses, and “I’m proud of you”s.
-Be Consistent
Do not give in to your toddler through a tantrum or bedtime crying. If you eventually give in and give her the pacifier, she will become confused. Stick to your guns and she will come around.
I told my son that binkys were for babies and that he was a big boy. He looked at me and said ok. That was the last time he asked for 1 unless he was sick.
i had 4 kids I found the best tip is to let them throw it in the trash or out a window. Then they will forget about it in 2 days.
Tell him the binkie fairy needs binkies for the newborns and other babies out there. Together--gather all the binkies up in a bag. Tie them to a tree out side or sit them somewhere out side some evening. Tell him the binkie fairy will bring him something for the binkies. A gift. (get him a gift) The next morning, take him out to see what the binkie fairy got for him. Make sure you did something with the binkies. He will be so excited and also pleased with himself that he has helped other babies who need those binkies.
if you dip it in something nasty but safe for them like something with a sour taste they are sure to put that thing down for good.
If he's alread down to night and nap, all you can do is take it away. I mean, what else is left? You can offer him a prize, the cost of which is his pacifier, or you can tell him the paci fairy will come and leave him a toy if he puts it under his pillow, etc etc etc, but I am a fan of cold turkey personally. We took our daugther's away on her birthday and it was no big deal.
I had my two year old down to just having the pacifier at naptime and nighttime, and we had discussed that at a certain point, we would get rid of all pacifiers. We made it a big deal (acting as if it was really exciting to be a big girl, etc.) and we pulled out the trash can and threw them all away. Get rid of them so you won't be tempted to give them back. I also did this at the end of the week when I was not working so that we could allow for slow adjusting. After a few days, she didn't miss her pacifiers at all.
Why would you want to have your child give up something that is a source of comfort for him? I say leave him alone...when he is ready he will give it up. My daughter gave her's up on her own before she was three . If he doesn't it's really no big deal, They don't do naps in school so he won't have it there and who is he hurting by having it at bedtime?
Start telling him that he doesnt need it to sleep. then take him to do ';big boy'; activities if he looses it for a nap. Or take his favorite caracter from a movie or show and show him that they dont use a passy. Just try to motivate him from a baby to a big boy.
Let nature takes its course. No point forcing. In time he'll grow out of it. No kids takes pacifier to school!
This is what worked for me, I cut the top of the soother, and so, when my daughter put it in her mouth, it was weird and not the same, and she just took out of her mouth and threw it on the floor, and started crying, and she would ask me for it, then I am like, you want it, here you go, take it, and she would not like it because of the whole in the middle.....
This may sound abrupt, but throw it away. It won't take long for him to get used to it. He will be fine. The bigger deal you make of this, the bigger he will think it is. Tell him he is a big boy and he doesn't need it anymore. You may have to suffer through the crankiness for a few days but it will be over very quickly this way. And don't give in and buy a new one if things get tough. Stick with it, he will be fine (unless he is a special needs child who has extreme difficulty with transitions, then I would talk to a professional, not someone on Yahoo)g
I just read an article in';American Baby'; with some ideas that might help.
1.Take the pacifier to ';Build-A-Bear'; and your child can make his very own ';Binky Bear.'; Have your son place the pacifier inside before they stich the bear up.
2. Tell him about the ';Binky Fair.'; Before he goes to bed, he can gather up all his binkies for the fairy, and the next morning he will find a new toy from the ';Binky Fairy.';
3. Gradually cut the tip off the pacifier. After a week or two, all of the suction will be gone and the child will loose interest.Any advice on getting rid of the pacifier?
My daughter put her dummies out for the 'dummy fairy' in a special bag, and in the morning the dummy fairy had come and taken them away, and had left her a special gift for her.
An extra special touch is to sprinkle some 'fairy dust' (glitter) in a trail on the ground..makes it quite a magical experience.
This scheme worked beautifully! And when she was missing her dummies, we reminded her that we were so proud of her, and so was the dummy fairy! :)
IT'S BEEN TIME TO GET RID OF IT. THE OLDER HE GETS IT MAYBE HARDER FOR HIM TO LET GO BECAUSE HE IS USE TO IT. THE AGE HE SHOULD HAVE GOT RID OF IT IS BEFORE 1 YEARS OLD. WHAT I CAN TELL YOU NOW IS TO TAKE IT AWAY STEP BY STEP. STOP GIVING IT TO HIM AT NAP TIME. NO MATTER HOW MUCH HE CRY FOR IT DO NOT GIVE IT TO HIM. THEN ONCE YOU HAVE DONE THAT TAKE IT AWAY AT BED TIME ONCE AGAIN LET HIM CRY HE WILL GET OVER IT. THAT'S THE ONLY WAY I KNOW BECAUSE YOU WAITED TO LONG TO TAKE IT AWAY. I HAD IT EASY MY DAUGHTER NEVER SUCKED ON ONE. SHE ALWAYS WAS A BOTTLE BABY.
It comforts him, so there is no easy way, so just take it away.
having the dentist tell my son it was time to get rid of the pacifier worked like a charm for us. the pediatrician told my sister when she was 2 that the she was to big and wasn't allowed to use it and she gave it up easily too.
it is amazing the influence a doctor can have on a child. :)
since you have weaned it down to just sleeping times i would probably start talking about when you are going to give it up. maybe on his birthday or when the Easter Bunny comes he is going to bring you some big boy prizes which means that you can't have your pacifier anymore. let him be prepared that it is coming so it isn't a shock. when it is time make it clear that no more pacifier. he isn't allowed to have it anymore because he is now almost 3. he'll understand. do it cold turkey. throw them out of the house so you aren't tempted to give in. having it around to see it is torture to a child. be able to open the cabinets and say, ';No binky here, none under the bed, not in my purse...';
If you are nervous about it you could take it away at nap times first. Crying during nap is easier to handle then at night when you are all exhausted. If you see that he can soothe himself to sleep without the pacifier during the day then you'll know that he'll be perfectly fine at night.
Good Luck. SD
This worked for me
Wait until you see him drop it on the floor and as soon as he does tell him that it is yucky and make HIM throw it away. Later when he asks for it remind him about how he threw it away and that it is all gone. I did this with my son and after about two days he didn't even ask for it anymore.
Once he's asleep, take all his paci's and cut off the nipple part. Then just put them back where they were. In the morning, when he reaches for it, he will wonder what happened and question it. Tell him that they broke. Act like ';OH my, the paci's broke! We can't fix them';. He'll ask for them often and probably carry the broken ones, but after a few days he won't miss them.
This worked brilliantly with my son. We did it cold turkey, and didn't give him any at night either. He may wake up the first couple of nights, but will be okay soon after. I know it's hard, but it's worth it.
According to my mother, we had several 'binkies' around the house. SHe got tired of us using them at all times of the day and night. She had us, me and my twin sister, gather them all up and put them in a bag and take them to the post office. She told us that there was a bad storm overseas and none of those children had binkies so we was going to send them ours. We was so willing to help we even threw the ones right out of mouths in the bag. She wrote a note telling the postmaster to ';throw this away when i leave'; and put it on the box. We thought we were so great for helping others. Becuase we were so kind we got to go to the store and get a new toy. Not for being big girls and giving up our binkies, but for wanting to help other children. This lesson in life has really taugh me alot, Im so giving and caring it isnt even funny. Way to go Mom!
-Start Gradually
Start with only giving her a pacifier at nap or bed times to soothe herself to sleep. Tell her that her pacifier is only for sleepy time. Gradually work the pacifier out of the naptime routines, until she is only using it to sleep at night. Eventually “lose” the pacifier for bedtime. Your toddler should adjust within a couple of days.
-Substitute Other Toys
If your child won’t give up the pacifier, have her trade it in for another toy or a special activity. At night, give your toddler a stuffed animal or special blanket instead of the pacifier for comfort.
-Peer Pressure
Keep your toddler playing with other children so that she models her behavior from them. (Choose non-pacifier sucking playmates)
-Rewards
Try a Reward Chart and give her stickers for getting through the day without her pacifier, if she is old enough to understand this. Give her lots of hugs, kisses, and “I’m proud of you”s.
-Be Consistent
Do not give in to your toddler through a tantrum or bedtime crying. If you eventually give in and give her the pacifier, she will become confused. Stick to your guns and she will come around.
I told my son that binkys were for babies and that he was a big boy. He looked at me and said ok. That was the last time he asked for 1 unless he was sick.
i had 4 kids I found the best tip is to let them throw it in the trash or out a window. Then they will forget about it in 2 days.
Tell him the binkie fairy needs binkies for the newborns and other babies out there. Together--gather all the binkies up in a bag. Tie them to a tree out side or sit them somewhere out side some evening. Tell him the binkie fairy will bring him something for the binkies. A gift. (get him a gift) The next morning, take him out to see what the binkie fairy got for him. Make sure you did something with the binkies. He will be so excited and also pleased with himself that he has helped other babies who need those binkies.
if you dip it in something nasty but safe for them like something with a sour taste they are sure to put that thing down for good.
If he's alread down to night and nap, all you can do is take it away. I mean, what else is left? You can offer him a prize, the cost of which is his pacifier, or you can tell him the paci fairy will come and leave him a toy if he puts it under his pillow, etc etc etc, but I am a fan of cold turkey personally. We took our daugther's away on her birthday and it was no big deal.
I had my two year old down to just having the pacifier at naptime and nighttime, and we had discussed that at a certain point, we would get rid of all pacifiers. We made it a big deal (acting as if it was really exciting to be a big girl, etc.) and we pulled out the trash can and threw them all away. Get rid of them so you won't be tempted to give them back. I also did this at the end of the week when I was not working so that we could allow for slow adjusting. After a few days, she didn't miss her pacifiers at all.
Why would you want to have your child give up something that is a source of comfort for him? I say leave him alone...when he is ready he will give it up. My daughter gave her's up on her own before she was three . If he doesn't it's really no big deal, They don't do naps in school so he won't have it there and who is he hurting by having it at bedtime?
Start telling him that he doesnt need it to sleep. then take him to do ';big boy'; activities if he looses it for a nap. Or take his favorite caracter from a movie or show and show him that they dont use a passy. Just try to motivate him from a baby to a big boy.
Let nature takes its course. No point forcing. In time he'll grow out of it. No kids takes pacifier to school!
This is what worked for me, I cut the top of the soother, and so, when my daughter put it in her mouth, it was weird and not the same, and she just took out of her mouth and threw it on the floor, and started crying, and she would ask me for it, then I am like, you want it, here you go, take it, and she would not like it because of the whole in the middle.....
This may sound abrupt, but throw it away. It won't take long for him to get used to it. He will be fine. The bigger deal you make of this, the bigger he will think it is. Tell him he is a big boy and he doesn't need it anymore. You may have to suffer through the crankiness for a few days but it will be over very quickly this way. And don't give in and buy a new one if things get tough. Stick with it, he will be fine (unless he is a special needs child who has extreme difficulty with transitions, then I would talk to a professional, not someone on Yahoo)
Any advice on what software to get for mixing music for a party and burning it on a cd, professionally?
Look into WavePad, a profesional and free program known as an audio manager that can mix songs together, make the track echo, make the treble, bass, or mid sections higher, and a whole lot more features. Go to Download.com and look for Wavepad, or just go on Google.
Pl share info about online medical advice/second opinion sites where I can upload my history & get online help
Also share your experiences/ratings in such sites.Pl share info about online medical advice/second opinion sites where I can upload my history %26amp; get online help
Medical advice and second opinions carry with them the risk of serious liability to the provider of the advice or opinion. Therefore, I doubt such sites exist.
However, there are many ';Symptom Checkers'; online, which are databases on which you try to match your symptoms to come up with a disease or condition:
Medical advice and second opinions carry with them the risk of serious liability to the provider of the advice or opinion. Therefore, I doubt such sites exist.
However, there are many ';Symptom Checkers'; online, which are databases on which you try to match your symptoms to come up with a disease or condition:
Looking to get my first tattoo, advice? Suggestions?
I'm looking to get my first tattoo in a few weeks and I still haven't settled on anything. I'm a bit of a geek so I was looking into the binary code or the power symbol. Nothing too complicated, single color is what I'm looking for but as far as the binary is concerned, I have no idea whatsoever of what to get coded.
I'm mainly looking for advice for the tattoo's location and maybe sizing.
If you happen to have a suggestion, I'd love to hear it.
Thanks.Looking to get my first tattoo, advice? Suggestions?
Hello, if you're not sure what to get done find something that means alot to you or something that you like and put your own personality into it, but whatever you do don't set getting your tattoo by a time limit but when you have found something that you'll want permanently inked onto your body.
As to where to place it that depends entirely upon what you want to get - goes for size too.
I agree with it not being complicated; i like elegance and subtlety.
Anyway, good luck!Looking to get my first tattoo, advice? Suggestions?
I just got my first tattoo this past friday, it really doesn't hurt anywhere near what some people say it does. In my opinion the outline of a tattoo ';hurts'; worst than any color or shading. I got my tattoo on the back of my shoulder because it was a feminine spot. If you want it to be in a place that people will see it often i'd say your forearm, if not then i'd say somewhere on your back or upper arm. Also the more nerves in the spot you get it, the more your arm, foot, leg etc might twitch. One other thing that i don't know from experience is that someone told me the more muscles you have in the desired tattoo area the more it will hurt...
Hope This Helps!
Good Luck!!
My friend got his name in binary code.
http://i114.photobucket.com/albums/n256/鈥?/a>
Go BIG and don't forget to TIP. It will be better for YOU. Good Luck ;)
I'm mainly looking for advice for the tattoo's location and maybe sizing.
If you happen to have a suggestion, I'd love to hear it.
Thanks.Looking to get my first tattoo, advice? Suggestions?
Hello, if you're not sure what to get done find something that means alot to you or something that you like and put your own personality into it, but whatever you do don't set getting your tattoo by a time limit but when you have found something that you'll want permanently inked onto your body.
As to where to place it that depends entirely upon what you want to get - goes for size too.
I agree with it not being complicated; i like elegance and subtlety.
Anyway, good luck!Looking to get my first tattoo, advice? Suggestions?
I just got my first tattoo this past friday, it really doesn't hurt anywhere near what some people say it does. In my opinion the outline of a tattoo ';hurts'; worst than any color or shading. I got my tattoo on the back of my shoulder because it was a feminine spot. If you want it to be in a place that people will see it often i'd say your forearm, if not then i'd say somewhere on your back or upper arm. Also the more nerves in the spot you get it, the more your arm, foot, leg etc might twitch. One other thing that i don't know from experience is that someone told me the more muscles you have in the desired tattoo area the more it will hurt...
Hope This Helps!
Good Luck!!
My friend got his name in binary code.
http://i114.photobucket.com/albums/n256/鈥?/a>
Go BIG and don't forget to TIP. It will be better for YOU. Good Luck ;)
I am a girl im skinny but i have love handles how do i get rid of that??! advice any ideas. that would work?
side stretches with approx a 3 lb weight ..hold the weight in your right hand at your right side, with your left hand raised and stretched over your head. let your right hand go down as far as you can on your right side without your foot coming off the floor. do approx ten reps and then repeat placing the weight in the left hand and the right hand overhead. Hope this helps. Also try using a broom placed at your neck and resting on your shoulders..stand in a partially squatted position and then twist your upper body from side to side.I am a girl im skinny but i have love handles how do i get rid of that??! advice any ideas. that would work?
do crunches but modify them to your needs so instead of straight up/down etc.
do crunches to each side
google it there should be photos on how to do it
good luck =]I am a girl im skinny but i have love handles how do i get rid of that??! advice any ideas. that would work?
They are tricky. I wish I could help but I'm not sure.
To that other person though, dont tell people not to lose weight if they want. Guys dont WANT to grab love handles...
hun you don`t need to get rid of it. what are the guys gonna hold onto?? :D i am like 5'2 and i weigh about 104. im not anorexic, i have a high metabolism and i am a gymnast. you don`t need to lose it.
do crunches but modify them to your needs so instead of straight up/down etc.
do crunches to each side
google it there should be photos on how to do it
good luck =]I am a girl im skinny but i have love handles how do i get rid of that??! advice any ideas. that would work?
They are tricky. I wish I could help but I'm not sure.
To that other person though, dont tell people not to lose weight if they want. Guys dont WANT to grab love handles...
hun you don`t need to get rid of it. what are the guys gonna hold onto?? :D i am like 5'2 and i weigh about 104. im not anorexic, i have a high metabolism and i am a gymnast. you don`t need to lose it.
Can you give me advice on getting rid of a genital wart?
I am a 34 year old man, and have 1 wart on the side of my shaft, about halfway down. I really would like to get rid of it. Any proven methods would be appreciated!!Can you give me advice on getting rid of a genital wart?
There are a few ways to get rid of the warts, but HPV will stay with you the rest of your life because it is a virus. The warts can come back. You can have them lasered off, frozen off, or use topical medication (creams). Aldara cream is very useful, but very powerful. I've used it and it works great. You are only suppose to use it 3 days a week because you can get 2nd and 3rd degree burns from it. Unfortunately the only way to get Aldara is by going to the doctor and getting a prescriptionCan you give me advice on getting rid of a genital wart?
OK, so I went to the Dr, and had it frozen off. It has completely healed and looks perfect. You would never know I even had it!!!
It didn't feel great, but wasn't the most pain either...
There is a procedure the Dr. will freeze the wart's, but they may return.
Seeing a doctor is your best bet. They can freeze the wart off or have you use a certain cream. It is possible for warts to come back but the good news is, you can get rid of them- even if that means for a short while.
Do not do anything to it at home. You could end up in some serious hurt.
Just go to the doc or to an std clinic or planned parenthood.
Really. I work in an std clinic, and just trust me on this. I've seen people do everything from cut them off or burn them off, etc. Just go to a doc.
Yes, Bite the bullet and go see a doctor.
no way to do it! except keep your di*k out of dirty roten holes in the first place
yes go get the prescription from Ur doctor for the cream that way u can remove it at home or just get it acid off like everyone else does and stop worrying about it.
warts suck
here is a link to help get rid of them
doctors are expensive and don't work
over the counters products are like playing the lotto slim chance to win
http://andycaine.wartsgone.hop.clickbank鈥?/a>
go to the doctor
There are a few ways to get rid of the warts, but HPV will stay with you the rest of your life because it is a virus. The warts can come back. You can have them lasered off, frozen off, or use topical medication (creams). Aldara cream is very useful, but very powerful. I've used it and it works great. You are only suppose to use it 3 days a week because you can get 2nd and 3rd degree burns from it. Unfortunately the only way to get Aldara is by going to the doctor and getting a prescriptionCan you give me advice on getting rid of a genital wart?
OK, so I went to the Dr, and had it frozen off. It has completely healed and looks perfect. You would never know I even had it!!!
It didn't feel great, but wasn't the most pain either...
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There is a procedure the Dr. will freeze the wart's, but they may return.
Seeing a doctor is your best bet. They can freeze the wart off or have you use a certain cream. It is possible for warts to come back but the good news is, you can get rid of them- even if that means for a short while.
Do not do anything to it at home. You could end up in some serious hurt.
Just go to the doc or to an std clinic or planned parenthood.
Really. I work in an std clinic, and just trust me on this. I've seen people do everything from cut them off or burn them off, etc. Just go to a doc.
Yes, Bite the bullet and go see a doctor.
no way to do it! except keep your di*k out of dirty roten holes in the first place
yes go get the prescription from Ur doctor for the cream that way u can remove it at home or just get it acid off like everyone else does and stop worrying about it.
warts suck
here is a link to help get rid of them
doctors are expensive and don't work
over the counters products are like playing the lotto slim chance to win
http://andycaine.wartsgone.hop.clickbank鈥?/a>
go to the doctor
Do you feel better about getting medical advice on YA if the answerer's avatar is wearing a nurse hat?
Why only pretend to be a nurse? Why not pretend to be a doctor?
Oh, and my diagnosis is Lupus.Do you feel better about getting medical advice on YA if the answerer's avatar is wearing a nurse hat?
No. Not all avatars that wear hats are nurses, and not all nurses have avatars that wear hats.
Also, there's a rumor that people lie on the internet, so it's all just a big guess if the person behind the avatar is female, employed, a nurse, not an ostrich, what have you.Do you feel better about getting medical advice on YA if the answerer's avatar is wearing a nurse hat?
no. you don't have to be a real, licensed nurse to put a hat on your avatar. and you should never take YA advice in the place of professional medical guidance.
no! just because there is an avatar wearing a nurse's hat it doesn't mean that you belive in what they said( about thier medical advice)g
Oh, and my diagnosis is Lupus.Do you feel better about getting medical advice on YA if the answerer's avatar is wearing a nurse hat?
No. Not all avatars that wear hats are nurses, and not all nurses have avatars that wear hats.
Also, there's a rumor that people lie on the internet, so it's all just a big guess if the person behind the avatar is female, employed, a nurse, not an ostrich, what have you.Do you feel better about getting medical advice on YA if the answerer's avatar is wearing a nurse hat?
no. you don't have to be a real, licensed nurse to put a hat on your avatar. and you should never take YA advice in the place of professional medical guidance.
no! just because there is an avatar wearing a nurse's hat it doesn't mean that you belive in what they said( about thier medical advice)
I am planning to move to singapore, is it easy to get job in singapore. kindly advice?
well it's not easy to find especially in these hard times; recently one company axe 2000 workers; so government encourage companies to hire SINGAPOREAN FIRST by giving them incentive so chances for foreigners to get job in singapore is low; moreover, government does not approve every foreigner work permit although company may hire u; SO NOT EVERY FOREIGNERS GURANTEE A JOB IN SINGAPORE; IT DEPEND WHETHER SINGAPORE NEEDS U OR NOT (and not u need singapore) BASED ON UR QUALIFICATION N EXPERIENCE; i suggest u to find jobs online before coming here otherwise u will be disappointed; Y DONT U TRY DUBAI? THERE R MANY INDIANS THEREI am planning to move to singapore, is it easy to get job in singapore. kindly advice?
Sound like Singapore is one of your home towns and you can just come and go. Singapore is a highly competitive country, for foreigners to come in unless you have specialized skills/expertise or there are jobs that the locals are not interested in. All the kids in school are already IT savvy and plentiful of specialized Technical/Business/IT diploma and Degrees holders in the market. Not easy as you think!I am planning to move to singapore, is it easy to get job in singapore. kindly advice?
Given these economic times, it's not easy to find job in Singapore.
If you are well equipped with a good education and portfolio, you will find it easier than many others to secure a job.
It really depends on what type of skill sets you have. It is tougher now because of the economic crisis, though the outlook is getting better now.
As a foreigner, you will need to look into employment passes or work permits.
Its hard to land a job in spore during this hard time.
Its even harder to get a good boss in a Private sector at anytime.
Please do thorough check on the company you intend to work and avoid being taken for granted.
easy? hahaha.. if it is easy.. u would have found a job at your own home country
Sound like Singapore is one of your home towns and you can just come and go. Singapore is a highly competitive country, for foreigners to come in unless you have specialized skills/expertise or there are jobs that the locals are not interested in. All the kids in school are already IT savvy and plentiful of specialized Technical/Business/IT diploma and Degrees holders in the market. Not easy as you think!I am planning to move to singapore, is it easy to get job in singapore. kindly advice?
Given these economic times, it's not easy to find job in Singapore.
If you are well equipped with a good education and portfolio, you will find it easier than many others to secure a job.
It really depends on what type of skill sets you have. It is tougher now because of the economic crisis, though the outlook is getting better now.
As a foreigner, you will need to look into employment passes or work permits.
Its hard to land a job in spore during this hard time.
Its even harder to get a good boss in a Private sector at anytime.
Please do thorough check on the company you intend to work and avoid being taken for granted.
easy? hahaha.. if it is easy.. u would have found a job at your own home country
I need to know how to get my 2 dogs to STOP fighitng.... any advice?
I have 3 dogs and the 2 oldest is ALWAYS fighting... its a constant thing for us. We have seperated them for about 2 or 3 weeks and it IS NOT helping! every chance they see each other they fight... we cant get rid of one and cant keep one outside is there anything i can do?I need to know how to get my 2 dogs to STOP fighitng.... any advice?
Separating them is not the answer. The problem is that they believe that they have to choose between themselves who has to run the house.
You have to show them that YOU are the leader not them.
I suggest an emergency intervention with the Dog whisperer.
Since that is probably out of the question, pull up a chair, and watch the National Geographic channel on t.v.
I swear by it. The man is amazing with animals and people.I need to know how to get my 2 dogs to STOP fighitng.... any advice?
I would take them to a good trainer who can teach them socialization skills. It may be a little costly, but much cheaper than a vet bill that could run into hundreds if not thousands of dollars.
We need a bit more info. How old are they. How long have you had each of them. Have they always been this way? What breeds? Gender?
Sometimes certain dogs will just never get along. I have a friend who had 4 dogs and everyone got along until she got a new dog. Then 2 of the original dogs that have been getting along for year started fighting. She tried different trainers for months. Eventually she had to put the more aggressive one to sleep because it then started to 'turn' on all the other dogs, and almost killed one. I also have some friends in the rescue community that have aggressive dogs they must always keep separate. They just always 'crate and rotate' who is out and who is caged. It works, but its more effort or your part.
I would suggest seeking professional help. We have two females that cannot see each other. We just do rotations in our home every 30-60 minutes. They share the same areas but at different times and never have any problems.
ok this is the best way buy a baby gate and keep them seperated and try every day when you let them go together if they fight seperate again. Or just keep them apart or put one in a room and put them together againg and if they fight split them appart again.
Separating them is not the answer. The problem is that they believe that they have to choose between themselves who has to run the house.
You have to show them that YOU are the leader not them.
I suggest an emergency intervention with the Dog whisperer.
Since that is probably out of the question, pull up a chair, and watch the National Geographic channel on t.v.
I swear by it. The man is amazing with animals and people.I need to know how to get my 2 dogs to STOP fighitng.... any advice?
I would take them to a good trainer who can teach them socialization skills. It may be a little costly, but much cheaper than a vet bill that could run into hundreds if not thousands of dollars.
We need a bit more info. How old are they. How long have you had each of them. Have they always been this way? What breeds? Gender?
Sometimes certain dogs will just never get along. I have a friend who had 4 dogs and everyone got along until she got a new dog. Then 2 of the original dogs that have been getting along for year started fighting. She tried different trainers for months. Eventually she had to put the more aggressive one to sleep because it then started to 'turn' on all the other dogs, and almost killed one. I also have some friends in the rescue community that have aggressive dogs they must always keep separate. They just always 'crate and rotate' who is out and who is caged. It works, but its more effort or your part.
I would suggest seeking professional help. We have two females that cannot see each other. We just do rotations in our home every 30-60 minutes. They share the same areas but at different times and never have any problems.
ok this is the best way buy a baby gate and keep them seperated and try every day when you let them go together if they fight seperate again. Or just keep them apart or put one in a room and put them together againg and if they fight split them appart again.
Im trying to get PREGNANT,,,,any advice,,what helps?
My Dr. told my husband and I to have sex once a day, every-other-day. You have a 24 hour window of time to conceive during the month and sperm take about 2 days to do the traveling to the egg. Having sex every-other-day will ensure you have the highest chance of getting pregnant. If you do it more than that his sperm count will drop.
Also do not stress...it takes much longer to conceive if you are stressed. Start taking your pre-natal vitamins now so your body will have what it needs for the baby once you conceive. You can buy them at Target for $6.99 for a bottle of 200.
Good luck!!
P.S. My husband and I took her advice and had sex once a day every-other-day and it took 3 months to conceive.Im trying to get PREGNANT,,,,any advice,,what helps?
Yeah stop trying; relax enjoy and get on top!!Im trying to get PREGNANT,,,,any advice,,what helps?
First of all you need to relax and not try so hard. the more stress you are under by putting pressure on you and your spouse trying to conceive you make it hard on your body. after i had my forst two children my husband and i tried for 12 years to get pregnant but nothing happened.
I got back into church was already saved got baptized and led my life right. within 3 onths i became pregnant. and i had been on fertility pills in the first 2 years of wanting another child with no success.
If it is meant to be it will happen just relax and enjoy each other. GOOD LUCK sweetie.
Count 14 days from the FIRST day of your last period, this is roughly when you will ovulate. Have sex every other day leading up to and a couple of days after this time. Dont save up your partners sperm thinking it will be better quality, all that happens is you end up with dead or poor quality little fellers that have sat a while in the testicles. Take multivitamins to provide you with all the nutrients you need to conceive. Keep your bum on a pillow after sex to help more sperm get to the egg. And most of all dont think about it too much and do lots of nice things to keep you relaxed. I have been trying for a long time and i know its because i got so wound up about it. I wish you lots of luck x
Also do not stress...it takes much longer to conceive if you are stressed. Start taking your pre-natal vitamins now so your body will have what it needs for the baby once you conceive. You can buy them at Target for $6.99 for a bottle of 200.
Good luck!!
P.S. My husband and I took her advice and had sex once a day every-other-day and it took 3 months to conceive.Im trying to get PREGNANT,,,,any advice,,what helps?
Yeah stop trying; relax enjoy and get on top!!Im trying to get PREGNANT,,,,any advice,,what helps?
First of all you need to relax and not try so hard. the more stress you are under by putting pressure on you and your spouse trying to conceive you make it hard on your body. after i had my forst two children my husband and i tried for 12 years to get pregnant but nothing happened.
I got back into church was already saved got baptized and led my life right. within 3 onths i became pregnant. and i had been on fertility pills in the first 2 years of wanting another child with no success.
If it is meant to be it will happen just relax and enjoy each other. GOOD LUCK sweetie.
Count 14 days from the FIRST day of your last period, this is roughly when you will ovulate. Have sex every other day leading up to and a couple of days after this time. Dont save up your partners sperm thinking it will be better quality, all that happens is you end up with dead or poor quality little fellers that have sat a while in the testicles. Take multivitamins to provide you with all the nutrients you need to conceive. Keep your bum on a pillow after sex to help more sperm get to the egg. And most of all dont think about it too much and do lots of nice things to keep you relaxed. I have been trying for a long time and i know its because i got so wound up about it. I wish you lots of luck x
I'm moving in to the dorms at college in one week any advice on how to get over being homesick?
Make friends quickly! Even if you're shy, put yourself out there right away. Go to as many campus events as possible, and don't be afraid to ask people in your dorms if they want to hang out (asking them to go to lunch or dinner is usually easiest). Remember, EVERYONE is in the exact same boat, and everyone wants to make friends. Especially the first few days, make sure your door is open at all times and appear friendly and upbeat. You may also want to consider going Greek - going through rush is a fantastic way to meet people, even if you don't join a Greek organization in the end. Most sororities and fraternities are not what most people think they are and get a really bad rep, but most people see their brothers and sisters as their family away from home -- which should be what you're going for. If going Greek isn't your thing at all, join an organization like Hall Government or an academic club.
Other than that, keep in touch with your family and friends from home, but don't spend all day talking on the phone or e-mailing them. You're in college now - focus on meeting people where you're at now. If you feel homesick, remember, you're not alone - almost everyone does.
But once you make friends, you'll feel right at home ... I promise.I'm moving in to the dorms at college in one week any advice on how to get over being homesick?
You've got a couple things going for you:
1) All the freshmen are in it together - that in itself creates an automatic bond between you and helps you make a home away from home.
2) The first weeks/months of college are CRAZY hectic and busy with trying to figure everything out and exploring campus life. This works to your advantage because it keeps you busy and distracted from homesickness.
Other than that, here's what I did: I jumped right into everything social from the first minute I got on campus. Even though I personally prefer to have a circle of close friends, it was really important for me to meet as many people as I could during the first few weeks of college. By keeping my attention on all the new things that were happening around me and all the possibilities, I only got homesick at night...and then I made sure I had an iPod with comforting music to listen to in bed. =) Good luck!I'm moving in to the dorms at college in one week any advice on how to get over being homesick?
Meet new people and form a few close bonds. Dorms kind of require that you make new friends because your all in that building together for most of the year. This is probably the best way because it starts to really make your dorm your new home - where your friends are. I'd be willing to bet, that if you make some close buddies there when you go home for winter and summer break you'll be ';home sick'; all over again and won't be able to wait to get back and see the people you hang out with.
Have fun.
Drink plenty of alcohol
Other than that, keep in touch with your family and friends from home, but don't spend all day talking on the phone or e-mailing them. You're in college now - focus on meeting people where you're at now. If you feel homesick, remember, you're not alone - almost everyone does.
But once you make friends, you'll feel right at home ... I promise.I'm moving in to the dorms at college in one week any advice on how to get over being homesick?
You've got a couple things going for you:
1) All the freshmen are in it together - that in itself creates an automatic bond between you and helps you make a home away from home.
2) The first weeks/months of college are CRAZY hectic and busy with trying to figure everything out and exploring campus life. This works to your advantage because it keeps you busy and distracted from homesickness.
Other than that, here's what I did: I jumped right into everything social from the first minute I got on campus. Even though I personally prefer to have a circle of close friends, it was really important for me to meet as many people as I could during the first few weeks of college. By keeping my attention on all the new things that were happening around me and all the possibilities, I only got homesick at night...and then I made sure I had an iPod with comforting music to listen to in bed. =) Good luck!I'm moving in to the dorms at college in one week any advice on how to get over being homesick?
Meet new people and form a few close bonds. Dorms kind of require that you make new friends because your all in that building together for most of the year. This is probably the best way because it starts to really make your dorm your new home - where your friends are. I'd be willing to bet, that if you make some close buddies there when you go home for winter and summer break you'll be ';home sick'; all over again and won't be able to wait to get back and see the people you hang out with.
Have fun.
Drink plenty of alcohol
Could I get some advice?
Right now I am on a public internet computer ( i don't have home internet access.) and i think someone is using this computer as a slave computer. Why I think this is there are two different popup blockers on here and I am still getting popups as well as the occasional google search result. It is really annoying because it is making the computer run really slow.
Any suggestions?Could I get some advice?
The computer probably is infected with spyware and/or virus's, that's what causes popups, even when there is a popup blocker present. So I wouldn't be putting any disks, cds, or flash drives into the thing or sending any e-mails to anyone. I would inform who ever is in charge of the computers about this problem.Could I get some advice?
Run AntiSpy/Spam
Download, update and run Spybot---http://www.safer-networking.org/... . Don't forget to use the Immunize feature.
Download, update and run Adaware---http://www.lavasoftusa.com/software/adaw鈥?/a>
Popup blockers, such as the Yahoo and Google toolbars, will only stop web based popup advertising. They can help somewhat but will do nothing to stop popups on a computer that is badly infected with trojan downloaders that are ';phoning home'; and contacting other computers to download and deliver the pop up ads.
That computer you are on is badly infected.
Any suggestions?Could I get some advice?
The computer probably is infected with spyware and/or virus's, that's what causes popups, even when there is a popup blocker present. So I wouldn't be putting any disks, cds, or flash drives into the thing or sending any e-mails to anyone. I would inform who ever is in charge of the computers about this problem.Could I get some advice?
Run AntiSpy/Spam
Download, update and run Spybot---http://www.safer-networking.org/... . Don't forget to use the Immunize feature.
Download, update and run Adaware---http://www.lavasoftusa.com/software/adaw鈥?/a>
Popup blockers, such as the Yahoo and Google toolbars, will only stop web based popup advertising. They can help somewhat but will do nothing to stop popups on a computer that is badly infected with trojan downloaders that are ';phoning home'; and contacting other computers to download and deliver the pop up ads.
That computer you are on is badly infected.
I am a single mom and am thinking of starting a new career as a hairstylist. Any advice on how to get started?
There are several programs/grants that help single moms get an education. I had 3 children when I enrolled in beauty school. Your local beauty school will tell you if you qualify for any of these grants. My school cost $10,500..which was paid through grants, however having 3 children at home I had to take $12,000 in student loans and still owe $108 per month for 15 years!
Beauty school is more than what most people think, My state required 2000 hours, about a 14 month program. I then had to take a state law test, practical exam and a theory test at the state boards.
When I got my license I found that most jobs were minium wage or commission. Most turned out to be minium wage. I then went into barbering and managed a barber shop, then went on my own and opened my own.
Best of luck, just be aware of the commitment you will be getting into to get your license.I am a single mom and am thinking of starting a new career as a hairstylist. Any advice on how to get started?
There is so much into opening a business. I highly recommended you take some business classes at your local college or vo-tech.
You'll need to know how to start up the business from zoning to money, to building to certification and the list goes on.
So, if this is something you really want to do head back to school. You'll need a hairstylist certification so while you're there start working on a degree in business. Don't start up a business clueless. You will not last long.g
Beauty school is more than what most people think, My state required 2000 hours, about a 14 month program. I then had to take a state law test, practical exam and a theory test at the state boards.
When I got my license I found that most jobs were minium wage or commission. Most turned out to be minium wage. I then went into barbering and managed a barber shop, then went on my own and opened my own.
Best of luck, just be aware of the commitment you will be getting into to get your license.I am a single mom and am thinking of starting a new career as a hairstylist. Any advice on how to get started?
There is so much into opening a business. I highly recommended you take some business classes at your local college or vo-tech.
You'll need to know how to start up the business from zoning to money, to building to certification and the list goes on.
So, if this is something you really want to do head back to school. You'll need a hairstylist certification so while you're there start working on a degree in business. Don't start up a business clueless. You will not last long.
What shall I do, I'm skinny & fat. need bodybuilding advice want to get bigger & toned up but not massive
I'm like 6ft 1 and have always struggled to put on weight, I'm 12stone, but not an average 12stone, like skinny fat (i'm naturally very skinny but have a bit of a gut %26amp; signs of a double chin), but some parts of me are very skinny like my forearms etc.. I'm getting pains etc in my chest because i'm eating so much crap food to try to get to 13/14 stone. but it's not doing me anygood, So I was wondering is it best to put on the weight and tone it afterwards, or is it best to lose the gut and start from scratch. I'm not currently going gym or working out, and would find it hard to eat 5-6 times a day, as i'm very busy and in full time employment.What shall I do, I'm skinny %26amp; fat. need bodybuilding advice want to get bigger %26amp; toned up but not massive
Your height to weight ratio is actually good. 12 stone (168 lbs.) at 6ft, 1 inch is a healthy proportion. What you do need is some toning up. Tighten up the gut and get rid of the double chin. I would start by doing aerobic (walking, jogging, running) exercises to get into condition. This would help eliminate unwanted body fat also. At the same time you could start abdominal exercises to tighten up your abs. These exercises will ready you for heavier workouts later on if you so choose. As your body shapes up you can then decide if you want to put on some muscle. This will involve weight resistance exercises. The key to success for any exercise program is consistency. Also vary your workouts to keep challenging your muscles. Eat normally, 3 meals a day. Be careful to restrict huge amounts of fatty foods or excess carbohydrates. No late night snacks.
These are just suggestions. This type of program works for me and has worked for many others. Good luck. What shall I do, I'm skinny %26amp; fat. need bodybuilding advice want to get bigger %26amp; toned up but not massive
Hi Jaygee
You need to eat high protein foods to build up muscle not fat. You also need to do some exercise at home to develop your physique.
Email me if you want a diet plan and an exercise plan and I'll put you through your paces and get you in shape.
Regards
andy
join a gym %26amp; start doing weights.
buy creatine and whey powder, %26amp; take as directed.
try and get hold of drinks calles ';fortisips'; and this should put weight on you.
whatever you do, steroids is a no no.
you should go to professional body builder for help.
make your mind up about if your fat or skinny then i'll help you
kisses and hugs
type in youtube p90x then in a few weeks you will be fine
Your height to weight ratio is actually good. 12 stone (168 lbs.) at 6ft, 1 inch is a healthy proportion. What you do need is some toning up. Tighten up the gut and get rid of the double chin. I would start by doing aerobic (walking, jogging, running) exercises to get into condition. This would help eliminate unwanted body fat also. At the same time you could start abdominal exercises to tighten up your abs. These exercises will ready you for heavier workouts later on if you so choose. As your body shapes up you can then decide if you want to put on some muscle. This will involve weight resistance exercises. The key to success for any exercise program is consistency. Also vary your workouts to keep challenging your muscles. Eat normally, 3 meals a day. Be careful to restrict huge amounts of fatty foods or excess carbohydrates. No late night snacks.
These are just suggestions. This type of program works for me and has worked for many others. Good luck. What shall I do, I'm skinny %26amp; fat. need bodybuilding advice want to get bigger %26amp; toned up but not massive
Hi Jaygee
You need to eat high protein foods to build up muscle not fat. You also need to do some exercise at home to develop your physique.
Email me if you want a diet plan and an exercise plan and I'll put you through your paces and get you in shape.
Regards
andy
join a gym %26amp; start doing weights.
buy creatine and whey powder, %26amp; take as directed.
try and get hold of drinks calles ';fortisips'; and this should put weight on you.
whatever you do, steroids is a no no.
you should go to professional body builder for help.
make your mind up about if your fat or skinny then i'll help you
kisses and hugs
type in youtube p90x then in a few weeks you will be fine
Can I get some advice on love & relationships?
There's this guy and he really likes me, I live 1,600 miles away but I'm moving back fairly soon. One second he'll say he loves me and say he wants me the second I set foot in my home state, then another time he'll say he doesn't like me. This is getting very confusing and stressful, I really want to be with him. What should I do or say to get him to make up his mind?Can I get some advice on love %26amp; relationships?
you can't make someone love you or like you. just don't deal with it until you are really back close to him and see how he acts then. he could just be telling you crap to have someone to talk to !!!Can I get some advice on love %26amp; relationships?
I'm not like this guy, but I know how men think. When a guy is immature or insecure about themselves or their relationships they often get the impression that their girlfriends have to be perfect in order to justify themselves. So my guess is that like every big decision, he's weighing the pros and the cons. The thing about relationships though is that its not really something you can reason, its a feel thing. So give him a kick in the pants and tell him you want an answer. Its not fair to you for him to act that way. Maybe he gains some maturity and realizes your right for him, or not. If not, he might eventually come to his sense. Its a risk, but it has to be better than not knowing how he really feels.
yo watz gd! i under stand were yall both are comeing from i think that he really likes you but he mite ether be scared when he c's ya in person.
it cld also be that he just trying to play u, but i thinks its that he mite be alittle shi. so tell him how u fell but dnt let it seem like u like hmto much or hel take avantage but be worm and caring and take yo time with him.
ya boi james nd mre help or just wana tlk hit me up on email
BFL
it is better you think twice before taking any decission. caz if this person can chage like this, there is no future if you are looking for long term relationship. dont be confused, listen to your brain not to your heart. aviod him, i mean his calls or meeting him. this will help you to see how much he cares for you and loves you. if he tries to contact you or know about your status he difinetly loves you.
Be careful, if he can't be honest with you ,than he's not worth your time! I know you want to be with him,but ask yourself this Question: What does he want? I don't want to see you get hurt! Take it slow, see what happens.
Tell him straight to make up his mind or you are not going to meet him again. He will get worried by that response and want you. Good luck :-) Remember girls have a natural power over guys, use it!
Wait for him to make up his mind and stop playing games
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say , hey im confised you act as if oyu like me one second and then another second you just like say you dont. so please stp playing with my emotions and tell me how you really feel.
You should go to problemadvice.doodlekit.com
It's really great, the dude helped me find the right words to break up with my abusive boyfriend, he didnt even touch me!
you can't make someone love you or like you. just don't deal with it until you are really back close to him and see how he acts then. he could just be telling you crap to have someone to talk to !!!Can I get some advice on love %26amp; relationships?
I'm not like this guy, but I know how men think. When a guy is immature or insecure about themselves or their relationships they often get the impression that their girlfriends have to be perfect in order to justify themselves. So my guess is that like every big decision, he's weighing the pros and the cons. The thing about relationships though is that its not really something you can reason, its a feel thing. So give him a kick in the pants and tell him you want an answer. Its not fair to you for him to act that way. Maybe he gains some maturity and realizes your right for him, or not. If not, he might eventually come to his sense. Its a risk, but it has to be better than not knowing how he really feels.
yo watz gd! i under stand were yall both are comeing from i think that he really likes you but he mite ether be scared when he c's ya in person.
it cld also be that he just trying to play u, but i thinks its that he mite be alittle shi. so tell him how u fell but dnt let it seem like u like hmto much or hel take avantage but be worm and caring and take yo time with him.
ya boi james nd mre help or just wana tlk hit me up on email
BFL
it is better you think twice before taking any decission. caz if this person can chage like this, there is no future if you are looking for long term relationship. dont be confused, listen to your brain not to your heart. aviod him, i mean his calls or meeting him. this will help you to see how much he cares for you and loves you. if he tries to contact you or know about your status he difinetly loves you.
Be careful, if he can't be honest with you ,than he's not worth your time! I know you want to be with him,but ask yourself this Question: What does he want? I don't want to see you get hurt! Take it slow, see what happens.
Tell him straight to make up his mind or you are not going to meet him again. He will get worried by that response and want you. Good luck :-) Remember girls have a natural power over guys, use it!
Wait for him to make up his mind and stop playing games
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Aj5nDkMeYKESXulpCDJNjzzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20080620214838AATk6Dj
say , hey im confised you act as if oyu like me one second and then another second you just like say you dont. so please stp playing with my emotions and tell me how you really feel.
You should go to problemadvice.doodlekit.com
It's really great, the dude helped me find the right words to break up with my abusive boyfriend, he didnt even touch me!
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I'll give you a reading right now!
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Your future will be filled with lies, misdirection, false hope and the prattlings' of ill-informed shiesters intent on conning you out of your hard earned cash.
That'll be a Tenner please.
I need the cheapest prepaid debit card to use for home based business..advice me which one and how i can get o
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The cheapest prepaid credit card today is the Bank Freedom prepaid Mastercard and VISA at http://www.bankfreedom.com . There is no activation fee and no month fee with direct deposit. Even without direct despoit it's only $4.95 much less than standard bank checking accounts.
I got mine here http://easyprepaidvisa.com $0 activation fee.
Go to a local bank that offers ';Free Checking,'; and open an account . . .
www.rushcard.com
Advice on getting baby to sleep in crib?
I have put her in the crib before but she will wake up every 2 hours. If she sleeps with me she sleeps 12 hours, but I can't rest good. She is 5 months. How long does it take for her to get used to sleeping alone?Advice on getting baby to sleep in crib?
My son was breastfed and up until about 4 months, he considered me his sandman. Just from personal experience I can say that letting her ';cry it out'; is the best way. It was hard for me to do, but it took less than a week and my son was sleeping through the night on his own. The longer you wait to fix the problem, the harder it will get. My tips are to establish a bedtime routine. A baby that is 5 months doesn't need night time feeding so I suggest....
1. Feed her
2. Bathe her
3. Read her a story
4. Kiss her, hug her, put her straight to bed.
Try and keep the lights and sound low at this time, so she gets the idea that it's quiet time. You can check on her as much as you want, but try not to pick her up during ';sleep time';
Some parents don't agree with this method. It doesn't work for everyone, but it DEFINATELY worked for me.Advice on getting baby to sleep in crib?
Our boy was ready at 3 months. We would put him in and if he cried for more than 10 min then we'd go in and not take him out but soothe him. Then repeat. Eventually we'd have to pull him out again and feed him. After a while though he got used to it and would sleep on his own and threw the night.
What ruins this process is picking them up ever time they cry or not letting them cry themselves to sleep. We would leave our son for 20 min when he was 6 months. He would eventually fall asleep. Some parents can't stand it and rush in but in fact that is not going to help them. Try and leave your beloved alone for longer and longer periods of time. But of course you know best and will be able to tell when you need to intervene and when not to.
My DS co-slept with us until he was about fifteen months.
Maybe change your bedtime routine or give her a bath with some calming lavender?
You might also try staying with her until she falls asleep. That is how we got DS in his own bed.
For three or four nights, I stayed with him comforting him with my touch and voice. I didn't pick him up unless he really started crying.
Then for another three or four nights, I soothed him with just my voice from the door (If you have a big room, you might do half way to the door) - again, not picking him up or touching him unless he was really crying - not just fussing.
After that, I stood on the other side of the closed door and soothed him from there.
After just three nights of that, I could complete our bedtime routine, sing him two songs and tell him ';Go to sleep. Mommy will be back to check on you in a few minutes.'; No crying, fussing or anything.
Not to say there haven't been 'bumps' along the way, but for the most part, DS is a great sleeper.
It can take a week to months. You'll get there with some sleep training. If you can't rest good you really have to stop sleeping with her...she'll expect it all the time. I too made this mistake. It gets harder and harder to break. I sleep trained my baby using the book below...it took perseverance and patience and sometimes I felt like giving up. But, we are there now ... it took me about three weeks. But, I didn't have to let him cry it out, thank goodness...
The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night by Elizabeth Pantley and William Sears
Is my personal fav.
This is the other extreme...
Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems: New, Revised, and Expanded Edition (Paperback)
by Richard Ferber
Good Luck!
It will at best take a week and at worst a couple of months. Keep it up though, she WILL get used to it.
Well you should rock her and make her sleep in her own crib she needs to get used to it by an early age or she Will always have to sleep with you because she wont be as comfortable so just sing to her rock her and stuff like that.
Try to give her something to hold on so she could have some sense of security. Usually a doll or even a piece of plain cloth would do the trick. Try to make her assiociate the object with rest and that will accompany her well at night.
She should already be doing the crib thing. My suggestion is to feed her right before bed. Also create what can be termed ';white noise'; in the baby room. A small fan directed away from the baby, a small radio playing Enya on low volume. Those 2 items plus a nice little humidifier should create an optimal enviroment for her to sleep in.
http://www.babyworld.co.uk/wb2/default.a鈥?/a>
a great site!
Quick!! Put her in bed.. let her cry.. you know she is fine.. it will only get worse if you continue to let her sleep with you.. after a couple MISERABLE nights, she will be so tired she will have to sleep. It will not be a fun time for you.. but you will be glad to have your nights without a baby. And she needs to feel secure in her bed alone. It will help her be more independent. Good luck.
Oh, you've waited a while to do this. With my second child I started at a couple weeks. She cried at first, but soon got used to it. As long as she was not hungry, wet or hurting (sick) I knew she would be alright. She cried at first a while, but soon got used to it. After a while I would just put her in the crib and she would go to sleep without crying. You will just have to ignore the crying. If she cries too long check her for a wet or dirty diaper. She will get used to it. Hang in there you can do it. If you wait too much longer you will have a toddler in bed with you. Which is up to you and what ever you can handle. Good luck!
You have started a bad habit here. You have to give her longer in the crib. Let her cry for a bit, and try controlled crying. At 5 months she should be sleeping in her own room in her own bed. Otherwise you are in for a life time of no sleep.
I know it's hard, when they are upset all you want to do it hold them. And the easiest thing to do is let her sleep with you because you can actually get some sleep yourself. But, you have to nip this in the bud now.
Perhaps you've already spoiled her. You'll have to establish a routine then transition her from your bed to her crib all the while keeping the other parts of the routine the same.
she has to be 1 yr old before she sleeps alone.
My son was breastfed and up until about 4 months, he considered me his sandman. Just from personal experience I can say that letting her ';cry it out'; is the best way. It was hard for me to do, but it took less than a week and my son was sleeping through the night on his own. The longer you wait to fix the problem, the harder it will get. My tips are to establish a bedtime routine. A baby that is 5 months doesn't need night time feeding so I suggest....
1. Feed her
2. Bathe her
3. Read her a story
4. Kiss her, hug her, put her straight to bed.
Try and keep the lights and sound low at this time, so she gets the idea that it's quiet time. You can check on her as much as you want, but try not to pick her up during ';sleep time';
Some parents don't agree with this method. It doesn't work for everyone, but it DEFINATELY worked for me.Advice on getting baby to sleep in crib?
Our boy was ready at 3 months. We would put him in and if he cried for more than 10 min then we'd go in and not take him out but soothe him. Then repeat. Eventually we'd have to pull him out again and feed him. After a while though he got used to it and would sleep on his own and threw the night.
What ruins this process is picking them up ever time they cry or not letting them cry themselves to sleep. We would leave our son for 20 min when he was 6 months. He would eventually fall asleep. Some parents can't stand it and rush in but in fact that is not going to help them. Try and leave your beloved alone for longer and longer periods of time. But of course you know best and will be able to tell when you need to intervene and when not to.
My DS co-slept with us until he was about fifteen months.
Maybe change your bedtime routine or give her a bath with some calming lavender?
You might also try staying with her until she falls asleep. That is how we got DS in his own bed.
For three or four nights, I stayed with him comforting him with my touch and voice. I didn't pick him up unless he really started crying.
Then for another three or four nights, I soothed him with just my voice from the door (If you have a big room, you might do half way to the door) - again, not picking him up or touching him unless he was really crying - not just fussing.
After that, I stood on the other side of the closed door and soothed him from there.
After just three nights of that, I could complete our bedtime routine, sing him two songs and tell him ';Go to sleep. Mommy will be back to check on you in a few minutes.'; No crying, fussing or anything.
Not to say there haven't been 'bumps' along the way, but for the most part, DS is a great sleeper.
It can take a week to months. You'll get there with some sleep training. If you can't rest good you really have to stop sleeping with her...she'll expect it all the time. I too made this mistake. It gets harder and harder to break. I sleep trained my baby using the book below...it took perseverance and patience and sometimes I felt like giving up. But, we are there now ... it took me about three weeks. But, I didn't have to let him cry it out, thank goodness...
The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help Your Baby Sleep Through the Night by Elizabeth Pantley and William Sears
Is my personal fav.
This is the other extreme...
Solve Your Child's Sleep Problems: New, Revised, and Expanded Edition (Paperback)
by Richard Ferber
Good Luck!
It will at best take a week and at worst a couple of months. Keep it up though, she WILL get used to it.
Well you should rock her and make her sleep in her own crib she needs to get used to it by an early age or she Will always have to sleep with you because she wont be as comfortable so just sing to her rock her and stuff like that.
Try to give her something to hold on so she could have some sense of security. Usually a doll or even a piece of plain cloth would do the trick. Try to make her assiociate the object with rest and that will accompany her well at night.
She should already be doing the crib thing. My suggestion is to feed her right before bed. Also create what can be termed ';white noise'; in the baby room. A small fan directed away from the baby, a small radio playing Enya on low volume. Those 2 items plus a nice little humidifier should create an optimal enviroment for her to sleep in.
http://www.babyworld.co.uk/wb2/default.a鈥?/a>
a great site!
Quick!! Put her in bed.. let her cry.. you know she is fine.. it will only get worse if you continue to let her sleep with you.. after a couple MISERABLE nights, she will be so tired she will have to sleep. It will not be a fun time for you.. but you will be glad to have your nights without a baby. And she needs to feel secure in her bed alone. It will help her be more independent. Good luck.
Oh, you've waited a while to do this. With my second child I started at a couple weeks. She cried at first, but soon got used to it. As long as she was not hungry, wet or hurting (sick) I knew she would be alright. She cried at first a while, but soon got used to it. After a while I would just put her in the crib and she would go to sleep without crying. You will just have to ignore the crying. If she cries too long check her for a wet or dirty diaper. She will get used to it. Hang in there you can do it. If you wait too much longer you will have a toddler in bed with you. Which is up to you and what ever you can handle. Good luck!
You have started a bad habit here. You have to give her longer in the crib. Let her cry for a bit, and try controlled crying. At 5 months she should be sleeping in her own room in her own bed. Otherwise you are in for a life time of no sleep.
I know it's hard, when they are upset all you want to do it hold them. And the easiest thing to do is let her sleep with you because you can actually get some sleep yourself. But, you have to nip this in the bud now.
Perhaps you've already spoiled her. You'll have to establish a routine then transition her from your bed to her crib all the while keeping the other parts of the routine the same.
she has to be 1 yr old before she sleeps alone.
I get really self-conscious when changing in gym class I'm overweight any tips or advice?
Fake some confidence. Just go in there and change, like everyone else, since they'll probably be to focused on chatting or changing to even notice, and also, if you try and get special treatment like changing in the stall or something then it will only draw attention to you which I'm assuming is the opposite of what you want. Plus, most people don't look like models and stuff when they're changing...I mean, they're putting on sweats and t-shirts.I get really self-conscious when changing in gym class I'm overweight any tips or advice?
RelacoreI get really self-conscious when changing in gym class I'm overweight any tips or advice?
there is this trick where you pull your arms out of your shirt sleeves, and then, very quickly,put your arms through the new shirt. The old shirt will fall off as you put the new one on, and you show hardly any skin. That's what I did, until I had to go to a Catholic school with button down shirts that inhibit the process. Luckily, my new school has a few changing booths.
Love your body no matter what. I am sure everyone in gym class feels the same way fat, thin or whatever. It can be embarrassing changing in front of strangers. Just go in there be confident, change your clothes and move on. Odds are everyone is feeling the same way and if you don't make a big deal of it you will feel more comfortable.
try ur hardest, dont act shy, be friendly.....
change quickly but not so fast it looks strange
as long as ur trying no one will care and believe it or not noone is watching u when u change
i am also overweight and have gym what i find out helps is to where a Long tank top under you're shirt when you are in gym and then you don't have to worry about people starring
i also where a really long top and face the wall when i change
so all anyone can see is my back . also try to find so traits u like about you're self it can be anything physical are just stuff you're good at . then just keep it in mind it really helps (example: i love my height and that i am an awesome dancer .i think about how all the other people don't have my awesome height there all short . )don't let them get u down just b u. good luck
dont worry bout it.....all that matters is what u think about urself.......if any one says any thing tell them to go to hell.....ive been in that type of sitution before....it got to where ididnt care any more...i am who i am and if they didnt like it well oh well
Start eating right and working out. I think you can also go into the bathroom stalls they have there and change.
Dont let no one tear you down or discourage you. Dont let anyone ever tell you that you are fat, if they do you turn to them and say no im P.H.A.T (packin. handsom. and. thick). And people love thickness! Being thick is the new black!
loose some weight budg
RelacoreI get really self-conscious when changing in gym class I'm overweight any tips or advice?
there is this trick where you pull your arms out of your shirt sleeves, and then, very quickly,put your arms through the new shirt. The old shirt will fall off as you put the new one on, and you show hardly any skin. That's what I did, until I had to go to a Catholic school with button down shirts that inhibit the process. Luckily, my new school has a few changing booths.
Love your body no matter what. I am sure everyone in gym class feels the same way fat, thin or whatever. It can be embarrassing changing in front of strangers. Just go in there be confident, change your clothes and move on. Odds are everyone is feeling the same way and if you don't make a big deal of it you will feel more comfortable.
try ur hardest, dont act shy, be friendly.....
change quickly but not so fast it looks strange
as long as ur trying no one will care and believe it or not noone is watching u when u change
i am also overweight and have gym what i find out helps is to where a Long tank top under you're shirt when you are in gym and then you don't have to worry about people starring
i also where a really long top and face the wall when i change
so all anyone can see is my back . also try to find so traits u like about you're self it can be anything physical are just stuff you're good at . then just keep it in mind it really helps (example: i love my height and that i am an awesome dancer .i think about how all the other people don't have my awesome height there all short . )don't let them get u down just b u. good luck
dont worry bout it.....all that matters is what u think about urself.......if any one says any thing tell them to go to hell.....ive been in that type of sitution before....it got to where ididnt care any more...i am who i am and if they didnt like it well oh well
Start eating right and working out. I think you can also go into the bathroom stalls they have there and change.
Dont let no one tear you down or discourage you. Dont let anyone ever tell you that you are fat, if they do you turn to them and say no im P.H.A.T (packin. handsom. and. thick). And people love thickness! Being thick is the new black!
loose some weight bud
Can I Get Some Advice From People With Experience?
I am crushing really bad on this guy I work with but I don't know how to go about getting to know him more...The problem is he's not usually the type I go for, he's punk/emo and I usually go for cleancut/hip-hop looking guys...But I really like this guy yet it seems like he's a different personality, hes not as openly flirtatious and I don't know how to go about getting his attention... : (Can I Get Some Advice From People With Experience?
hehe
you sound really smart (knowing exactly what you want ';I usually go for cleancut/hip-hop looking guys'; )
well if you like him than this shouldnt stop you....
the one thing i have seen girl use a lot to show they are interested in a guy is the ';deep look';
if you want him to approach you, what you do is next time you see him look at him right in his eyes and smile, if hes a little smart and aware he will probably react to it and start talking to you,
the other thing you can do is
you can talk/discuss/comment/compliment about the workplace, the work, or something he has done, to strart a conversation...........
i hope this helps =)
good luck~!Can I Get Some Advice From People With Experience?
If he isn't really what you usually go for, maybe you should ask yourself ';why the drastic change?'; Is this someone that you will be embarrassed to be seen with once the ';hots'; wears off? If you have so many red flags now, why would you pursue it? Maybe you are excited because he is different.
I went after a guy type that I usually didn't go for....scared the crap out of him! Of course culture played a big part in it.
I think you should just be honest with yourself and with him invite him to have lunch with you on your lunch break if at all possible. At least you will know if hes interested r not. If lunch not possible just make conversation with him and you will know if you want to continue further r not.
start off with being his friend first. show interest without seeming desperate and wearing your heart on your sleeve. once you guys casually get to know each other, everything else, whether to be strictly friends or to take it further, will fall into place. good luck!
it never is good to go out with someone that you work with
hehe
you sound really smart (knowing exactly what you want ';I usually go for cleancut/hip-hop looking guys'; )
well if you like him than this shouldnt stop you....
the one thing i have seen girl use a lot to show they are interested in a guy is the ';deep look';
if you want him to approach you, what you do is next time you see him look at him right in his eyes and smile, if hes a little smart and aware he will probably react to it and start talking to you,
the other thing you can do is
you can talk/discuss/comment/compliment about the workplace, the work, or something he has done, to strart a conversation...........
i hope this helps =)
good luck~!Can I Get Some Advice From People With Experience?
If he isn't really what you usually go for, maybe you should ask yourself ';why the drastic change?'; Is this someone that you will be embarrassed to be seen with once the ';hots'; wears off? If you have so many red flags now, why would you pursue it? Maybe you are excited because he is different.
I went after a guy type that I usually didn't go for....scared the crap out of him! Of course culture played a big part in it.
I think you should just be honest with yourself and with him invite him to have lunch with you on your lunch break if at all possible. At least you will know if hes interested r not. If lunch not possible just make conversation with him and you will know if you want to continue further r not.
start off with being his friend first. show interest without seeming desperate and wearing your heart on your sleeve. once you guys casually get to know each other, everything else, whether to be strictly friends or to take it further, will fall into place. good luck!
it never is good to go out with someone that you work with
Does anyone know where i can get any even advice in regards?
to abortion? i mean somewhere that will tell me facts not an opinion so i can decide what to doDoes anyone know where i can get any even advice in regards?
most sites lean toward what they believe it right or wrong. So be carefull when looking at them. A site that does not like abortion will tell you how they do not want you to do it. and a site that is Pro Choice will tell you how you should believe in what they believe in.
you might try talking to someone. It might be better.
Remember, in the end the choice, which ever, is yours, Do NOT let someone else tell you what to do..
I have had an abortion, so if you need to talk. I am here for you . I have also had friends that have not had them and kept there child and ones that have given them up for adoption.Does anyone know where i can get any even advice in regards?
In the US, Planned Parenthood should give you good info.
They're an abortion provider, so they don't think abortions are as bad as pro-life orgs do, but they talk about risks, after-effects and other options too. It's not like they're desperate to do more abortions. Since laws vary from place to place, you may need to get local legal info from a local PP office or similar entity.
Until you decide, it's important that you take good care of yourself and the fetus so the child will be healthy if you do carry it to term.
Everyone has an opinion on this, scientists attempt to handle their work without judgement. I would recommend reading scientific journals and magazines.
most sites lean toward what they believe it right or wrong. So be carefull when looking at them. A site that does not like abortion will tell you how they do not want you to do it. and a site that is Pro Choice will tell you how you should believe in what they believe in.
you might try talking to someone. It might be better.
Remember, in the end the choice, which ever, is yours, Do NOT let someone else tell you what to do..
I have had an abortion, so if you need to talk. I am here for you . I have also had friends that have not had them and kept there child and ones that have given them up for adoption.Does anyone know where i can get any even advice in regards?
In the US, Planned Parenthood should give you good info.
They're an abortion provider, so they don't think abortions are as bad as pro-life orgs do, but they talk about risks, after-effects and other options too. It's not like they're desperate to do more abortions. Since laws vary from place to place, you may need to get local legal info from a local PP office or similar entity.
Until you decide, it's important that you take good care of yourself and the fetus so the child will be healthy if you do carry it to term.
Everyone has an opinion on this, scientists attempt to handle their work without judgement. I would recommend reading scientific journals and magazines.
What is your advice for getting started in Forensic Social Work?
I have a Masters in Social Work and my license is being processed (probably another month before I receive the actual license). I am interested in working in Forensic Social Work, assessment, and expert testimony, etc. especially with children and child abuse victims. What is your advice for getting started in this career?What is your advice for getting started in Forensic Social Work?
Frankly, I know nothing about this view. Nowadays, it seems like more and more people committed crimes.
We shall always see them on TV. `BONES` is one of the American TV series that reflects in this view. Sometimes, you can see victim`s body already rotten and smell... to catch the criminals from crime scene to autopsy using DNA scientific technique to catch the criminals.
The most interesting ones are the serial killers ones.
I feel very gruesome but I still want to see them. Sometimes, late in the night or very early at dawn, America `NBS` news have a program called, `Dateline` always have the real ones occurring in real life.
Anyway, your job is no easy thing. The dead talks! You`re as busy as a bee searching for facts to catch the criminals. And you talk and work for them. Even cases that had been sealed for 30 odd years, as long as you could get a tiny hair or anything, you`ll pin the criminals. As long as you can get something else from the crime scene or anything within your tracing scopes, you`ll bring a case into broad daylight.
Cold Case!
Frankly, I know nothing about this view. Nowadays, it seems like more and more people committed crimes.
We shall always see them on TV. `BONES` is one of the American TV series that reflects in this view. Sometimes, you can see victim`s body already rotten and smell... to catch the criminals from crime scene to autopsy using DNA scientific technique to catch the criminals.
The most interesting ones are the serial killers ones.
I feel very gruesome but I still want to see them. Sometimes, late in the night or very early at dawn, America `NBS` news have a program called, `Dateline` always have the real ones occurring in real life.
Anyway, your job is no easy thing. The dead talks! You`re as busy as a bee searching for facts to catch the criminals. And you talk and work for them. Even cases that had been sealed for 30 odd years, as long as you could get a tiny hair or anything, you`ll pin the criminals. As long as you can get something else from the crime scene or anything within your tracing scopes, you`ll bring a case into broad daylight.
Cold Case!
I recently lost my baby girl, even though I was only thirteen weeks I cant seem to get over this, any advice?
Last Monday I rushed into the ER to find that my little girl was no longer alive. And after what seemed like a never ending night I went home. Since then I havent done anything, Ive spent a week from work, havent cleaned, really even slept or ate. Everyone expects me to be okay already, but Im not and I dont know if I can be againI recently lost my baby girl, even though I was only thirteen weeks I cant seem to get over this, any advice?
I'm so sorry. It will take time and as the days pass you will start feeling a little bit better. It is important that you let those close to you know how you are feeling so that they can give you all the support that you need right now. Hope you feel better...I recently lost my baby girl, even though I was only thirteen weeks I cant seem to get over this, any advice?
I am really very sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, I don't know of any specific way to get over a loss; you might not ever get over it, but in time, will find that your grief has lessened. Time is the great healer.
Don't let anyone tell you it's time to get over it, or that you should be over it by now because everyone handles grief differently. After all, this is your daughter and you loved her.
A grief counselor might help, talking to your partner, taking personal time for yourself to meditate and reflect, pray if you are religious, focus on getting well. I'll be praying for you. Hang in there and God bless.
PS: Good ideas about the memorial tree / memorial garden. I think that's beautiful. To each of you who posted your own personal stories: I'm also sorry for your losses, as well.
I know that ';everyone'; expects it, but I don't, and you shouldn't expect it of yourself, either. No matter how far along the baby was, she was your little girl already. You loved her, and the dreams of her (it's hard to have to let go of those dreams. . .). It's hard to redirect where you thought your life, and hers, was going. You will probably never totally ';get over'; it. . . she will be with you in your thoughts the rest of your life. However, eventually it will get easier.
I would encourage you to find a support group. There are support groups for miscarriages, still born, and infant deaths. If you can find a good one, you will find it very, very helpful.
I lost my little boy to heart and lung defects a few months ago. I will probably think about him every day for the rest of my life, and I am okay with that. I would think there is something wrong with me if I didn't. However, I still go on. In fact, I am already dreaming of getting pregnant again. It will be scary though, the entire pregnancy.
My condolences on your loss. I know that you are hurting badly. The only advice that I can give you is what I would tell any one that suffered the loss of a loved one. Everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time. It has only been a few days and you are not on a schedule. Most of my immediate family has passed away and what I noticed in the grieving process is that one day I would suddenly realize that the crushing grief did not seem so heavy. From that point on things got a little better every day. You will probably never forget this little one, but in time you will be able to move forward. Don't be impatient, be kind to yourself right now.
When I did find out I was pregnant it was the day I lost my baby boy. My periods was irregular and I didn't think anything about being pregnant I was 20 weeks and was so devastated I cried everyday all day didn't do anything but sleep I wanted him so bad I couldn't cope it was like I gave up on everything it took me a while to get through I'm not saying I still don't think about it I just think it wasn't meant to be. I can accept that I know he's in heaven and God will bless me and my husband with a healthy baby.
Sorry for your loss, it's never easy to lose a pg, but omg it was only last week, please don't be so hard on yourself you are allowed time to grieve. a week isn't exactly long at all (not in the slightest), but not doing anything is a concern, understand yes but it really shouldn't go on. You must eat and drink for your health, try to go back to work and start getting back on track with your life, and perhaps do something to make a memorial for your daughter, like plant a tree or a flower to commemorate her, something that you can go to and just cherish her memory.
Don't drown in depression darl you need to get on with life, get over your loss - NO, you may never get over that but find a place deep inside you that can put these emotions but still move on. It's not easy but you can do it and in time you will alright. it just takes time. but you need to take the first step in getting on with your life.
My sister lost a baby, the Sunday before Christmas a couple of years back and she still cries in the shower to this day. I will not lie to you and tell you everything will be ok....it will get better, but you will always have a place for your little angel in your heart! Just know that she is in heaven waiting for you and will be there at the Golden Gates to greet you and live in eternity in Heaven. Losing a child is probably the hardest loss in the world, but give yourself a little time to heal, then try for another baby. You have to think, maybe she would have had an extra chromosome or something. Those children can be born normally and then die within a year after you give birth. There is always a reason for everything, even though we may not understand it at the time.....life is a mystery.
its bad to lose a baby but remember you are young and it will be ok you have to get over this and its hard to tell how long it will take but you have to force yourself to get up and move on .its not easy but you get to a group of mothers that have lost their young and it will help. take care and get help from the doctor also it will pass you have to mourn for abit and then move on and you will have other babies did they find out why ? if not ask them why they may knwo. its sad but that life wasn't ready to come here and then god too kit for some reason it could be that it wasn't fully formed or soemthign missing and it was to your benefit to take it early and that is good for you and you can have others.
stupid people think that because you weren't pregnant long your fine... loss is loss, and it sucks!
plant a tree, or rosebush in memory of your daughter. You will be okay, but it may take a while. my friend lost her daughter a week before her due date 11 months ago. it was very tramatic, and it takes a long time to heal. I'm not going to be one of those idiots that says ';you'll have another one'; but my friend did go through a lot of healing when she got pregnant again, she is due in December, and it has helped her to be happy again. You'll never forget your daughter, give yourself as much time as you need to grieve her loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. Please just give yourself time. No one will ever understand the loss of losing an unborn child until they have experienced it themselves. There is no time limit to ';get over it';.... I lost my baby at 7 weeks, and sometimes it is still hard for me to this day, and that was 8 years ago, and I now have a 10month old. Just allow yourself to go through the experience and day by day you will start to heal... Good luck and god bless.
I'm sorry you went through this.
You will be ok again someday. But the reality of it is, you lost your child. Some people may not see it that way, that's their problem.
You need to grieve and there's nothing wrong with that. Take your time and remember, everything happens for a reason and what's meant to be will be.
i completely understand. i had a baby girl at full term. she was healthy and everything. however, the day i was bringing her home from the hospital, she started throwing up green stuff. i knew it wasnt normal b/c i have 2 other girls. she never made it home from the hospital. she only lived 9 days. she ended up having NEC. its been a year and i swear i will never be the same. but just look at it like this... she is in gods hands now and you know you will see her again one day. i ve been doctors, been on medication and everything. nothing helped. i deal with it by going to her grave, writing poetry about it, and just knowing that she is fine. i now know that she would've been better off with the lord than me b/c i dont think i could handle a sick child. i also tell myself that she is a little angel that the lord took back b/c she was she was extra special. if you ever need someone to talk to let me know...jenniferowen98@yahoo.com
I lost a little girl at 18 weeks and I know how painful it is. People who have never experienced a miscarriage can't understand your loss because to them it was a pregnancy not a baby. Time will help you heal. We planted a memorial rose in our garden so as to acknowledge our baby. If it all seems to much get counselling to cope there are some great support groups your Doc can refer you to.
its only been a week. It is the exact same as losing a baby who has been born. I am very sorry for your loss. Remember there are support groups and people you can talk to if you need it. It takes time. Hang in there.
You were looking forward to this baby. Its crushing to have something like this happen. I am sorry, again.
First off, I am so sorry for your loss. Really.
Secondly, people shouldn't expect you to be alright already. This JUST happened. It is only normal to feel this way so soon after.
You need to grieve and you need someone who will listen and not brush it off.
Thirdly, you will never forget. Know it was not your fault. Unfortunately, these hurtful things do happen.
Remember and treasure the little time you had carrying your baby.
i'm so sorry once again so so sorry i do know how you feel the best way to get back into a normal routine is to stay busy and if you have to cry then cry your only human and keep family and friends close to you and if you ever want to talk about it do talk it our with someone you trust but always try to keep busy and stay positive for what you do have.
i'm so sorry once again
first let me offer my condolences on your loss. death is never easy but to lose a baby even though she was not born yet is still hard my mom had 2 pregnancies to end this way and it takes time that was over 40 years now and she still talks about both turn to a family member or cleregy man for strength and read Psalms 126:1-3 . I will keep you in prayer
I am so sorry. I lost my baby boy a year ago yesterday. His birthday was today. THey are wrong to do you like that. You need to do what you feel like doing. its been a year for me and it hurts and always will. Talk with a group if you need support. If you are in Alabama contact huntsville hosp and they have lots of supprt groups. I am sorry for your loss.
im sorry but i know how you feel. i lost my baby @ 12 weeks and it does hurt. my boyfriend and i broke up shortly after and there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think about my baby.
I know it's hard. I lost a baby too and it's still hard for me at times. You need to take as much time as you need for this. Just don't give up all together.
You may feel like you did something wrong or that there's something wrong with you, but there isn't. Sometimes it just happens to the best of us. Don't give up or lose hope.
You'll be fine. Why not try again? If your of faith.. God did this for a reason. You will be okay again, it may take time but you will be.
God bless
first of all i am so sorry for your loss:(
second of all, tell your friends that you are really struggling through this. talk to your pastor.
maybe you should look into some grief counseling it couldn't hurt.
i cant do anything but just reading that it made me crii that sad im sorry
friends and pastor are great, but there are alot of miscarrige support groups out there. thats what helped me alot!
Lots of prayer and find a support group. You will never get over it, but in time you will heal from it. God Bless!
Jenn,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I also experienced the loss of my first child.
You are a mother forever.
TheCompassionateFriends.org - really helped me as they prepared me for the 5 stages of grief. I went to a local chapter for support, and they all had been in my shoes before this time, and that really helped me with the acceptance of my feelings and tears.
1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining - if I would have done that, then this would not have happened.
4. Depression
5. Acceptance
Ever loss of a child whether miscarriage, stillborn, or other death must be grieved. Some stay in denial forever and they stay stuck. The Compassionate Friends local support group helped me move forward, but they taught me that I am a mother of my child forever, and they are also in my shoes. At times, I shall cry for no reason and then I remember my Susan - and it's when I first found out I was pregnant and was so happy, or when it was 3 days before Christmas in 1988 when I went to the emergency room, and she was 2 months premature.
You will go with each stage and then back and forth between stages, and that's where support groups really help. These are the people that have gone through this same experience before me. They know what it is to experience the LOSS OF A LOVE.
I read many books by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross from thelibrary about facing the loss of a love.
In time, you may turn the ';lemon'; into ';lemonade'; by having a memorial in the memory of your child. You will find whatever works for you. I donated a bible at a Lutheran church in Pennsylvania, I donated a brick with her name and date she was born stilll in DISNEY in Florida. I donated towards a Viet Nam people's church in Phila. when they needed a church organ. I donated towards vestments and the building of a catholic high school in memory of my daughter. It doesn't matter what you give, but when you give you do so in memory of your daughter and that helps people today to live in a better world.
Some have given books on the loss of a love to THE COMPASSIONATE FRIENDS group, and then they have books to lend to those who go through this.
There are times when you remember - years later.
You are a parent forever. Just think - all of the parents who lose a child in a war, or car accident or drowning etc.
We are all part of the same universe.
Some think you have to get over it - on their timetable.
Not so!
You have the rest of your life to experience your feelings at your own pace.
GOD bless us always in all ways.
MBA-Boston Univ.
CPA-retired
My daughter, Susan, s/b 12/22/1988, - Yes she would have been 20 this year!
my only surviving daughter was born 11/10/1989 at 12:22 PM., and she was also 2 months premature.
Interesting huh - if you look at the time she was born.
I lost my marriage, eventually retired early from my job but I learned that I still had my own life, and sometimes that is enough. My ';friends'; stopped talking about my loss, and they did not want to hear about my feelings any more. I regained my self respect and self worth with the help of THE COMPASSIONATE FRIENDS. May GOD bless their help when we have no idea where to turn. Our friends who have not walked in our shoes have no idea. So it helps to surround yourself with those who can help you walk, jog or run again. They help you smile again, and that's a beautiful thing!
I'm so sorry. It will take time and as the days pass you will start feeling a little bit better. It is important that you let those close to you know how you are feeling so that they can give you all the support that you need right now. Hope you feel better...I recently lost my baby girl, even though I was only thirteen weeks I cant seem to get over this, any advice?
I am really very sorry for your loss. Unfortunately, I don't know of any specific way to get over a loss; you might not ever get over it, but in time, will find that your grief has lessened. Time is the great healer.
Don't let anyone tell you it's time to get over it, or that you should be over it by now because everyone handles grief differently. After all, this is your daughter and you loved her.
A grief counselor might help, talking to your partner, taking personal time for yourself to meditate and reflect, pray if you are religious, focus on getting well. I'll be praying for you. Hang in there and God bless.
PS: Good ideas about the memorial tree / memorial garden. I think that's beautiful. To each of you who posted your own personal stories: I'm also sorry for your losses, as well.
I know that ';everyone'; expects it, but I don't, and you shouldn't expect it of yourself, either. No matter how far along the baby was, she was your little girl already. You loved her, and the dreams of her (it's hard to have to let go of those dreams. . .). It's hard to redirect where you thought your life, and hers, was going. You will probably never totally ';get over'; it. . . she will be with you in your thoughts the rest of your life. However, eventually it will get easier.
I would encourage you to find a support group. There are support groups for miscarriages, still born, and infant deaths. If you can find a good one, you will find it very, very helpful.
I lost my little boy to heart and lung defects a few months ago. I will probably think about him every day for the rest of my life, and I am okay with that. I would think there is something wrong with me if I didn't. However, I still go on. In fact, I am already dreaming of getting pregnant again. It will be scary though, the entire pregnancy.
My condolences on your loss. I know that you are hurting badly. The only advice that I can give you is what I would tell any one that suffered the loss of a loved one. Everyone grieves in their own way and in their own time. It has only been a few days and you are not on a schedule. Most of my immediate family has passed away and what I noticed in the grieving process is that one day I would suddenly realize that the crushing grief did not seem so heavy. From that point on things got a little better every day. You will probably never forget this little one, but in time you will be able to move forward. Don't be impatient, be kind to yourself right now.
When I did find out I was pregnant it was the day I lost my baby boy. My periods was irregular and I didn't think anything about being pregnant I was 20 weeks and was so devastated I cried everyday all day didn't do anything but sleep I wanted him so bad I couldn't cope it was like I gave up on everything it took me a while to get through I'm not saying I still don't think about it I just think it wasn't meant to be. I can accept that I know he's in heaven and God will bless me and my husband with a healthy baby.
Sorry for your loss, it's never easy to lose a pg, but omg it was only last week, please don't be so hard on yourself you are allowed time to grieve. a week isn't exactly long at all (not in the slightest), but not doing anything is a concern, understand yes but it really shouldn't go on. You must eat and drink for your health, try to go back to work and start getting back on track with your life, and perhaps do something to make a memorial for your daughter, like plant a tree or a flower to commemorate her, something that you can go to and just cherish her memory.
Don't drown in depression darl you need to get on with life, get over your loss - NO, you may never get over that but find a place deep inside you that can put these emotions but still move on. It's not easy but you can do it and in time you will alright. it just takes time. but you need to take the first step in getting on with your life.
My sister lost a baby, the Sunday before Christmas a couple of years back and she still cries in the shower to this day. I will not lie to you and tell you everything will be ok....it will get better, but you will always have a place for your little angel in your heart! Just know that she is in heaven waiting for you and will be there at the Golden Gates to greet you and live in eternity in Heaven. Losing a child is probably the hardest loss in the world, but give yourself a little time to heal, then try for another baby. You have to think, maybe she would have had an extra chromosome or something. Those children can be born normally and then die within a year after you give birth. There is always a reason for everything, even though we may not understand it at the time.....life is a mystery.
its bad to lose a baby but remember you are young and it will be ok you have to get over this and its hard to tell how long it will take but you have to force yourself to get up and move on .its not easy but you get to a group of mothers that have lost their young and it will help. take care and get help from the doctor also it will pass you have to mourn for abit and then move on and you will have other babies did they find out why ? if not ask them why they may knwo. its sad but that life wasn't ready to come here and then god too kit for some reason it could be that it wasn't fully formed or soemthign missing and it was to your benefit to take it early and that is good for you and you can have others.
stupid people think that because you weren't pregnant long your fine... loss is loss, and it sucks!
plant a tree, or rosebush in memory of your daughter. You will be okay, but it may take a while. my friend lost her daughter a week before her due date 11 months ago. it was very tramatic, and it takes a long time to heal. I'm not going to be one of those idiots that says ';you'll have another one'; but my friend did go through a lot of healing when she got pregnant again, she is due in December, and it has helped her to be happy again. You'll never forget your daughter, give yourself as much time as you need to grieve her loss.
I am so sorry for your loss. Please just give yourself time. No one will ever understand the loss of losing an unborn child until they have experienced it themselves. There is no time limit to ';get over it';.... I lost my baby at 7 weeks, and sometimes it is still hard for me to this day, and that was 8 years ago, and I now have a 10month old. Just allow yourself to go through the experience and day by day you will start to heal... Good luck and god bless.
I'm sorry you went through this.
You will be ok again someday. But the reality of it is, you lost your child. Some people may not see it that way, that's their problem.
You need to grieve and there's nothing wrong with that. Take your time and remember, everything happens for a reason and what's meant to be will be.
i completely understand. i had a baby girl at full term. she was healthy and everything. however, the day i was bringing her home from the hospital, she started throwing up green stuff. i knew it wasnt normal b/c i have 2 other girls. she never made it home from the hospital. she only lived 9 days. she ended up having NEC. its been a year and i swear i will never be the same. but just look at it like this... she is in gods hands now and you know you will see her again one day. i ve been doctors, been on medication and everything. nothing helped. i deal with it by going to her grave, writing poetry about it, and just knowing that she is fine. i now know that she would've been better off with the lord than me b/c i dont think i could handle a sick child. i also tell myself that she is a little angel that the lord took back b/c she was she was extra special. if you ever need someone to talk to let me know...jenniferowen98@yahoo.com
I lost a little girl at 18 weeks and I know how painful it is. People who have never experienced a miscarriage can't understand your loss because to them it was a pregnancy not a baby. Time will help you heal. We planted a memorial rose in our garden so as to acknowledge our baby. If it all seems to much get counselling to cope there are some great support groups your Doc can refer you to.
its only been a week. It is the exact same as losing a baby who has been born. I am very sorry for your loss. Remember there are support groups and people you can talk to if you need it. It takes time. Hang in there.
You were looking forward to this baby. Its crushing to have something like this happen. I am sorry, again.
First off, I am so sorry for your loss. Really.
Secondly, people shouldn't expect you to be alright already. This JUST happened. It is only normal to feel this way so soon after.
You need to grieve and you need someone who will listen and not brush it off.
Thirdly, you will never forget. Know it was not your fault. Unfortunately, these hurtful things do happen.
Remember and treasure the little time you had carrying your baby.
i'm so sorry once again so so sorry i do know how you feel the best way to get back into a normal routine is to stay busy and if you have to cry then cry your only human and keep family and friends close to you and if you ever want to talk about it do talk it our with someone you trust but always try to keep busy and stay positive for what you do have.
i'm so sorry once again
first let me offer my condolences on your loss. death is never easy but to lose a baby even though she was not born yet is still hard my mom had 2 pregnancies to end this way and it takes time that was over 40 years now and she still talks about both turn to a family member or cleregy man for strength and read Psalms 126:1-3 . I will keep you in prayer
I am so sorry. I lost my baby boy a year ago yesterday. His birthday was today. THey are wrong to do you like that. You need to do what you feel like doing. its been a year for me and it hurts and always will. Talk with a group if you need support. If you are in Alabama contact huntsville hosp and they have lots of supprt groups. I am sorry for your loss.
im sorry but i know how you feel. i lost my baby @ 12 weeks and it does hurt. my boyfriend and i broke up shortly after and there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think about my baby.
I know it's hard. I lost a baby too and it's still hard for me at times. You need to take as much time as you need for this. Just don't give up all together.
You may feel like you did something wrong or that there's something wrong with you, but there isn't. Sometimes it just happens to the best of us. Don't give up or lose hope.
You'll be fine. Why not try again? If your of faith.. God did this for a reason. You will be okay again, it may take time but you will be.
God bless
first of all i am so sorry for your loss:(
second of all, tell your friends that you are really struggling through this. talk to your pastor.
maybe you should look into some grief counseling it couldn't hurt.
i cant do anything but just reading that it made me crii that sad im sorry
friends and pastor are great, but there are alot of miscarrige support groups out there. thats what helped me alot!
Lots of prayer and find a support group. You will never get over it, but in time you will heal from it. God Bless!
Jenn,
I am so sorry for your loss.
I also experienced the loss of my first child.
You are a mother forever.
TheCompassionateFriends.org - really helped me as they prepared me for the 5 stages of grief. I went to a local chapter for support, and they all had been in my shoes before this time, and that really helped me with the acceptance of my feelings and tears.
1. Denial
2. Anger
3. Bargaining - if I would have done that, then this would not have happened.
4. Depression
5. Acceptance
Ever loss of a child whether miscarriage, stillborn, or other death must be grieved. Some stay in denial forever and they stay stuck. The Compassionate Friends local support group helped me move forward, but they taught me that I am a mother of my child forever, and they are also in my shoes. At times, I shall cry for no reason and then I remember my Susan - and it's when I first found out I was pregnant and was so happy, or when it was 3 days before Christmas in 1988 when I went to the emergency room, and she was 2 months premature.
You will go with each stage and then back and forth between stages, and that's where support groups really help. These are the people that have gone through this same experience before me. They know what it is to experience the LOSS OF A LOVE.
I read many books by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross from thelibrary about facing the loss of a love.
In time, you may turn the ';lemon'; into ';lemonade'; by having a memorial in the memory of your child. You will find whatever works for you. I donated a bible at a Lutheran church in Pennsylvania, I donated a brick with her name and date she was born stilll in DISNEY in Florida. I donated towards a Viet Nam people's church in Phila. when they needed a church organ. I donated towards vestments and the building of a catholic high school in memory of my daughter. It doesn't matter what you give, but when you give you do so in memory of your daughter and that helps people today to live in a better world.
Some have given books on the loss of a love to THE COMPASSIONATE FRIENDS group, and then they have books to lend to those who go through this.
There are times when you remember - years later.
You are a parent forever. Just think - all of the parents who lose a child in a war, or car accident or drowning etc.
We are all part of the same universe.
Some think you have to get over it - on their timetable.
Not so!
You have the rest of your life to experience your feelings at your own pace.
GOD bless us always in all ways.
MBA-Boston Univ.
CPA-retired
My daughter, Susan, s/b 12/22/1988, - Yes she would have been 20 this year!
my only surviving daughter was born 11/10/1989 at 12:22 PM., and she was also 2 months premature.
Interesting huh - if you look at the time she was born.
I lost my marriage, eventually retired early from my job but I learned that I still had my own life, and sometimes that is enough. My ';friends'; stopped talking about my loss, and they did not want to hear about my feelings any more. I regained my self respect and self worth with the help of THE COMPASSIONATE FRIENDS. May GOD bless their help when we have no idea where to turn. Our friends who have not walked in our shoes have no idea. So it helps to surround yourself with those who can help you walk, jog or run again. They help you smile again, and that's a beautiful thing!
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