I personally like really aggressive guys. You might want to try approaching a girl instead of hoping she'll approach youImportant question: ladies I need your advice, how do you get a gf?
First off, a guy does not have to be physically attractive. If a woman is looking your way, or ';staring'; as you put it, she is making contact. Maybe she's interested and waiting for you to make the first move. Women like a man to be a man and make the first move. You have to show some strength in character and assurance that you can stand straight up on your hind legs. Most women are turned off by wimping behaviors in a guy. So, the next time you see a woman ';staring'; at you, why don't you smile at her. If she smiles back, the next step is to ask her name. Give yours, and center the impending conversation around her. Women don't mind talking about themselves. Self centered men need to learn not to talk so much about themselves.
well u have to get rid of the shyness if u want a girlfriend cause girls rely on guys for many things and they are very emotional so u cant be shy u have to be strong. also fear of rejection? all i have to say is there is gonna be a lot of that. but dont let it scare u, use that as a starter and keep going forget the rejection cause thats how u gonna get the right girlfriend and lastly when a lot of women stare at u it means u are very attractive to them so look at them dead in the eye and smile or say hi. it'll attract em and bring em closer. i hope this helps. good luck!
Women stare at you because they want you to come talk to them. You could just walk up and ask them a general question like did you hear about.... and talk about a topic in the news or about the weather.
After you talk to her for a few minutes, you will find out information about her that you can then talk to her about herself, women love to talk about themselves and love it when a guy will listen.
You ask, why do women never approach... we are waiting for you to approach... that's your job, to come to us.
Give it a try and let me know how it works out for you!!
Good Luck!!
You must be attractive then. Naturally most women just won't approach you. That is kind of part of being the WOMAN. (now you do have some bold women though).
You need to find that confidence and approach the woman. Believe me, a man that isn't afraid to approach me with RESPECT instead of GAME gets many pluses.
WTF?!?! let me tell you this: it's kinda ingrained in every girls head that it's the guy that should ask the girl out. by not asking any girl out, you know what ur being? a WUSSY. and thats a trait that women are NOT attracted to.
Unless ur sex appeal and ';charming'; personality is off the charts and they simply can't hold back, then you will never get approached by a girl. dude i was nervous about rejection too but then i realised what i have just said above. Even tho she said she wasn't looking for a boyfriend my confidence level boosted ten-fold, i was just too proud of myself actually asking her out to worry about the fact that she said no! and im not regretting it, asking girls out is a breeze now.... girls that i know at least lol, but still, if u just TRY, ur life will be changed i promise
Matt, I don't wanna mess up your thinking but you are wrong. There are more of US than YOU on the planet. BTW, you wouldn't be you without one of us.
First of all maybe you hang out at the wrong places. Go where WE are.
Second, and not to push your ego or shy buttons, take the risks, make some move to chat, be YOU.
A.F.
Some women may be in the same situation as you, so just say hi to someone you like, and try and strike up a conversation if it doesn't go anywhere, then try with someone else or the same person again, but maybe using a different approach.
they stare because ur attractive and they see something they like
and most of the time women dont approach a guy
they want the guy to approach them
dude i know some ugly guys that pull
the sexiest looking women and its because they
take the risk of saying ';hi';
U said u r scared to approach because of fear of rejetion...
But if y really want the girl, it is u who must make the first approach..
How will u kno if u haven't tried?
Well, what do u want anyway?? They stare because they've got eyes! That's why...(Mayb u've got somthin behind ur back!:D)
You can approach a girl and open the door to starting something in a very casual way. Approach girls confidently. Be friendly and give them enough attention that they want more. Leave them questioning how into them you are. They'll do the rest.
don't be afraid of rejection. there r a lot of women! just have more confidence, appreciate yourself, just go up to a girl and ask her if she wants to get a drink with u or go eat and then kep in touch with her.
Sometimes women tend to think that a guy could be to good looking for them so they will stare but not touch.
yea dude girls almost never make a 1st move it's just like that
you have to able to make the 1st move nd go talk 2 them
good luck 2 u
go to college? many girls approach you there...
you sound gay if you want the girl to approach you get some balls
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