I'm a fat guy who is try to get a girl that only really goes with athletic and good looking guys. advice?

I'm a chub and plump guy who is try to get a girl that only really goes with athletic and good looking guys. we actually have a lot in common and it all seems good, but i feel like my looks and my belly are the things that keep her away. i like the outdoors and i am athletic, just not ';atheletic looking'; so to say. I'm trying real hard to lose weight just for this. How do i get her to look past it?I'm a fat guy who is try to get a girl that only really goes with athletic and good looking guys. advice?
Wake up dude, I'm not trying to be mean here but you need a reality check.


She's not going to see past you bad points.


You know why?


Cause there's guys out there that dont have any.


Why should she, as a beautiful girl with a lot to offer, settle for less than the very best she deserves, and ';see past'; negative attributes just to be with a fat guy?


Sure, you might have things in common, but if she finds out she also has things in common with some ripped athletic dude, then you wont stand a snowballs chance in hell.


Its so frustrating to hear this dude cause if you made the effort, there's every chance she'd already be yours, you've just let yourself down by letting the weight take over.


And you say you've tried to loose it, but if you haven't actually succeeded, then you're just not trying hard enough.


No one has weight thats impossible to loose, and I mean you only describe yourself as ';chubb'; and ';plump';, its not like your morbidly obese, you could get in shape in a month or 2 if you tried.


Cut out all carbs, sugar, junk food and takeaway foods and excersicce yoru *** off for a couple of months and before you know it, you'll be in the league you need to be in to get chicks like her.





You've gotta look at things from her point of view man, she's got millions of guys out there to choose from, she could easily get a guy with a body girls drool over, so you're not going to end up with her by hoping she goes for the fat guy by some miracle instead, you're only gonna get her by being that guy with the hot body.





The only thing holding you back is completely in your power to change, if you want her, put in the work and f*cking get her dude.


Having her as motivation is the perfect way to go, everytime you go to eat something fattening, ask yourself what would taste better, the crap your about to eat or the chance to bury your face in between those sexy legs of hers?


I think you'll find that question answers itself :)





Loose the weight, good luck dude.I'm a fat guy who is try to get a girl that only really goes with athletic and good looking guys. advice?
Since she's, ';a girl that only really goes with athletic and good looking guys';, I don't think you can get her to look past it.





If she were able to look past it, she would have done so already.





It seems like your only options would be to get into shape or find a girl who likes you the way you are.





But keep in mind, even if you get an athletic looking body, it's not a guarantee that she'll like you romantically. (Unless she already said that she would like you if you lost weight.)





Good luck!
The main problem isn't actually that you're fat. The main problem is your neediness and lack of confidence.





Let's look at it like this. You are finding a way to get with her. You are trying to prove yourself to her. You are PROBABLY trying to touch her in horny ways. At the same time, you don't think you're good enough for her. And you're, again, PROBABLY being be shady about your feelings, instead of being straight up without giving a sh*t how she reacts.





I think that if you had a long lost twin who walked straight up to her, was unabashedly horny while keeping his control, looked at her eyes and said, ';You're the most beatiful thing I've ever seen,'; she would melt. But YOU won't be able to pull that off, for the reasons I mentioned above. Work on your personality instead of your body (but work on your body too).
it depends on her. if shes as superficial as your makin her sound then all you can really do is work out and clean up. but if your gonna go down this route after her remember to stay confident as a champ. you sound a little self-defeatin. but anyway good luck.....sometimes there are women worth that chase, and if shes one then do what u gotta do
if u are truly tryin to lose weight then in a couple months u should look athletic enough to entice her.





get in lots of cardio to burn off that fat. runnin, skatin, swimmin, ridin a bike....do lots of stuff like that.
my dog chases his tial and I have no idea why, I guess he thinks he will eventually catch it. Dont you worry about squishing some pretty girl, and dont big people constantly smeel of sweat and cheese?
Stop being fat?





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talk to her. looks arent everything. they just happen to be the thing that gets someone to notice another person. see if you can get her to see past your exterior.
lose the weight. ASAP. its the only way. sorry to break it to ya
roothinol best option imo
try losing some weight but in the mean time just start out being friends with her
uhmm show me a pic of u btw how old are you?